So tired of not having sex for too long...

Artchic528 · Jan 22, 2017 at 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by TishaBuv

Is the cognitive issue the limiting factor to why you only can work part time?

Maybe start by looking at what you do with yourself every day. You get driven to a job and picked up and taken home, I assume. Then what do you do at home all those hours?

Well, right now I basically am cleaning up poop after two hyperactive puppies that my mom took in for fostering. Other than that, I try and do the basic things, like cooking for myself and trying to clean up after myself as well.

Jan 22, 2017 at 09:29 PM

I also don't drive or avoid it mostly - I'm able to, but I really prefer not to. It has become very terrifying for me. I like to at night, but at the same time I don't really have anywhere to go or know where to go. I like bookstores and record shops, but I go very little and never meet anyone. I feel stuck also and my mental health doesn't help. I am in a very physical work situation that keeps me busy and tired. I know that's a bad excuse, but I'm exhausted a lot by the end of the day.

Artchic528 · 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by lostbynovember

I also don't drive or avoid it mostly - I'm able to, but I really prefer not to. It has become very terrifying for me. I like to at night, but at the same time I don't really have anywhere to go or know where to go. I like bookstores and record shops, but I go very little and never meet anyone. I feel stuck also and my mental health doesn't help. I am in a very physical work situation that keeps me busy and tired. I know that's a bad excuse, but I'm exhausted a lot by the end of the day.

I like bookstores too, but since I can't drive I mostly just buy them online. I would like to go to the library but returning the books is a hassle given the rare opportunity I get to go to the closest ones.

If you want to talk about books, feel free to shoot me a PM anytime.

scorpiosis37 · Jan 23, 2017 at 02:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Artchic528

It's mental. Cognitive I think.

Everyone around me is the limiting factor, not myself.

How would I even begin to take control?

Have you been diagnosed by a doctor? Do you receive disability payments from the government? Have you ever been to a learning specialist to help you understand how to work with your disorder and find alternative ways of doing things? With the right treatment, you might be able to do a lot more than you think. What kind of work do you part time?

Erebos · Jan 23, 2017 at 03:46 AM

Took six years out of dating after my ex left.(didn't so much as look a guy up and down.)
Gained 40lbs and definitely gave up, believe me I have a few undesirable issues that don't help with dating.
Six months ago I started going out for coffee with a guy I have known through gaming. ( yeah you heard me right, I still game even tho I am the wrong side of 35.)
Anyway point is we clicked, neither of us were looking. (He has his own sht going on.)
We just went for a coffee cos we happen ed to be in town the same day.
I think what I am saying is you can look too hard. Sometimes doing the stuff that makes you happiest brings what you need your way.

I would love to hear about the stuff that makes you happy Art, the stuff you do for you.

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