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mikewest
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Default Jan 28, 2017 at 09:05 AM
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I was sexually abused by an older brother in my early teens. I have gone on to marry and have straight sex ever since. That being said. When I look at pictures of beautiful women clothed or naked the first thing that slams into my mind is performing oral sex on a man. I do not understand that. It confuses and upsets me. Any input would be of great help. Thank you.
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Default Jan 28, 2017 at 02:18 PM
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Was there oral sex involved when your brother abused you?
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Default Jan 30, 2017 at 04:31 AM
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Hi

Seeing or experiencing sexual things now sometimes I think can trigger flashbacks of a sexual nature. It's probably a flashback if its intrusive and unsettling. What you're experiencing doesn't necessary mean your gay or bi either. Do you have a therapist?

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