[Unhuman]

I'm going on 39 and never been on a date. I have been invisible to the opposite sex my whole life. I deleted Tinder after a few weeks because I didn't get any matches. I feel like trying is pointless because a woman will run out on me once she finds out I'm inexperienced.

[Skeezyks]

Hello Unhuman: I'm sorry you have had such difficulty. Hopefully coming here to PC can be of some comfort & support. I know, from reading members' posts, that there are many here who share similar concerns.

I see this is your first post here on PC. So... to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! May the time you spend here be of benefit.

PsychCentral is a great place to get information as well as support for mental health issues. The more you post, & reply to other members’ posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are social groups you can join & chat rooms where you’ll be able to connect with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) Lots of great stuff! So please keep posting!

[tryingtobeconstruct]

Originally Posted by Unhuman

I'm going on 39 and never been on a date. I have been invisible to the opposite sex my whole life. I deleted Tinder after a few weeks because I didn't get any matches. I feel like trying is pointless because a woman will run out on me once she finds out I'm inexperienced.

I'm not a woman, but I have a hard time believing that inexperience is a turn-off for most women. In fact, I'd bet it's a plus for a lot of them. What do women reading this think?

Beyond that I can only commiserate. I've always been the guy women aren't interested in.