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Old May 31, 2017, 12:08 AM
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I'm a 16 year old male, I don't have any issues with confidence. I'm actually a lot more confident than a large majority of people I used to go to school with, I'm not narcissistic, just don't deal with lack of confidence. But, with all that said, I have no sexual desire. When I was 10-13 all I wanted was to have sex. But, ever since I hit around age 14, maybe a little after I just completely lost all desire to. I'm not bisexual, or gay, I have no attraction to men. And very little to women, if you have any advice on what I should look into or anything of that nature, please tell me. Not concerned about this, as it really doesn't have any negative affects, if anything there is more positive to this than anything as of right now. Just confused, and wondering what might be the issue, if any.

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Old May 31, 2017, 08:49 AM
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A 16 yr old male is still in puberty. There's a great deal of change going on in your body & brain.

Try studying more of the scientific aspects of what you're going thru, then the feeling parts of it. Then it might make some sense.
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Old May 31, 2017, 08:16 PM
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Well... I don't really know the answer to this. There are some people who are simply asexual. They just have no particular interest in sex one way or the other. Perhaps what you are experiencing has something to do with puberty. However it may turn out that you're simply asexual. If you go to YouTube & search "asexuality" you'll find a bunch of videos on this topic.
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Old Jun 03, 2017, 04:36 PM
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Any chance that anything in your environment or food is causing it? Have you had any blood tests to rule out a physical problem? Seems odd that it would come on like this.
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Old Jun 11, 2017, 01:13 PM
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I am 60 years old and have become this way also ... I used to have a normal sex life (have two children) and slowly lost desire to be with another sexually then slowly even lost interest in porn ... now find myself completely with no desire or even feeling ... as a test had my wife "handle" me last night with no reaction at all .. no sexual feeling ... bearly able to feel anything at all ... as a youngster wanted this because my sex drive was so high .. and partners were few and far between ... I guess the Karma caught with me ...lol
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Old Jun 11, 2017, 01:32 PM
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I guess the Karma caught with me ...lol
Isn't it more like testosterone? In a 60 year old man you probably have lost a lot of needed sex hormone. I am sure that is a factor for you.
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