Why the disconnect?

I am watching a funny movie about the guy who invented the vibrator. Weird, but true story. But it always makes me wonder.. biologically why is the clit so disconnected from the area that is typically thought of as sex? Is it simply a mistake of nature that would have been corrected via centuries of evolution. Why is it that most women can only feel pleasure that way and also, through the bizarre action of a vibrator.

I'm not sure why you think it's disconnected? Disconnected from what? The clitoris is quite large, runs around the labia, can get close to the sphincter muscle & closely resembles the male sex organ.
Do you mean the actual gland?

Its like not easily stimulated in the actual act of penetration. In general. And extra work needs to be done to stimulate that area.

I think for some women it does get stimulated & others it doesn't. I think it's amazing how large the clitoris can actually get when stimulated.
What I've heard one comedian ask is "why is an amusement park next to a sewer treatment plant!"

What is the name of the movie?

Hysteria... pretty good. Funny when they realize what actually DOES cause immediate orgasims. I mean, it is just so improbable.

I think it's very individual how much work needed to stimulate clitoris. I suspect every woman is different.

I think it's very individual how much work needed to stimulate clitoris. I suspect every woman is different. And it depends on a partner too etc

I don't know how a man can compete with one of them. My ex-to-be had one of them and it was the only way for her. I had to use it on her and wasn't allowed in until she had a orgasm, I hated that thing.

If it's seen as a competition there's a problem....& if it's considered extra work.....you're taking all the fun out of it.

Okay I can accept your opinion of my post about the disconnect. Everyone has one!