[MaggieSimpson]

So, I have a lot of trauma in my history and had a turbulent sex life so far. From periods of hypersexuality to periods of sexual anorexia, I've been all over the place.

For the past few years I've been single and with meds and all I hardly thought about sex, until recently I met someone and sexual interest returned out of the blue.

But, although this someone is from the opposite sex, I find myself wanting and feeling more comfortable with the idea of dating other women for a change, and getting past my own insecurities and self-imposed-stigma.

So I brought it up with my previous T, who promptly said I'm not bi at all, that I'm just probably bicurious and made me explain with details my previous experiences with women until he "believed me". That was pretty traumatizing, so it was the number one reason I quit therapy with him.

What I didn't tell him though, and am still not trusting enough to tell new T, is that I'm a multiple, with either DID or OSDD, and that bisexuality is sort of a consensus between all us inside.

I'm trying to figure it all out, maybe a consensus is not what we need and just to live in the present, wether it's having a relationship with a man or with a woman, I think I'm just overwhelmed with all the opinions inside, so mostly I've decided not to initiate anything with anyone lol

I'm not sure this post belongs here, if you think I should post this somewhere else let me know.

Thank you in advance

If you would like to have a relationship with a man/woman or have sex with them, then by definition that would make you bi. I don't think it matters what others think. You can always explore your sexuality and come out as bi if you would like to.

[Travelinglady]

I've read that sexuality is on a continuum, from complete hetero to complete homo. Only all of you can decide where you sort of fall in that range. Could your male T feel threatened by your bi thoughts? Just wondering...