"Bait and switch" tactics with escorts. Do you walk off or do you stay?

Anonymous37919 · Mar 25, 2018 at 09:23 AM

Sometimes, you may hook up with a girl online who claims to have a profile about herself. You arrive, and it becomes apparent that it ain't actually her, or something. What would you do next? Would you stay, or just leave again?

AspiringAuthor · Mar 25, 2018 at 11:43 PM

I am a girl myself and have not used escorts, but to answer your question, I would evaluate based on what I see - if you like her, you stay, and if you do not like her, you do not. Your poll does not include that option.

OblivionIsAtHand · Mar 26, 2018 at 01:03 AM

I almost walked off one time, but I ended up staying. What a mistake. The girl looked nothing like her picture, but since it was cheap I ended up going for it.

The experience was so uninteresting I kept eyeing the Xbox the escort had on her table. I was more interested in the Xbox.

As a sidenote, goodbye Backpage. You will be missed.

Artchic528 · Mar 26, 2018 at 01:09 AM

I don't use escorts, but one would think that if the real thing isn't as advertised, then the obvious thing would be to not waste time nor money on it. Right?

Mar 26, 2018 at 08:12 PM

I also have never used an escort, but if I found her attractive I would at least give it a shot. If she was not attractive to me I would leave. Superficial? Totally, but you're paying for it.

Patagonia · Mar 27, 2018 at 08:03 AM

Maybe you should spend the money on a well known, reputable escort service.

Anonymous37919 · Apr 03, 2018 at 12:47 AM

Did anyone vote?

Apr 03, 2018 at 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Peter A

Did anyone vote?

Nope. Didn't see a poll. Lol.

Anonymous37919 · Apr 28, 2018 at 01:21 AM

I don't really see them much anymore. Why? Well, it's a massive waste of money, I wasn't enjoying myself in any case, and they don't care about you in the least. They just pretend to for your money, but make no mistake about it: I don't think they are into you at all...

divine1966 · Apr 28, 2018 at 01:05 PM

They do it for money so why would you think they’d care about you? They don’t know you.

downandlonely · Apr 28, 2018 at 01:07 PM

I've never used an escort service, but as a woman I don't really need to.

butterscotch444 · Apr 28, 2018 at 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Artchic528

I don't use escorts, but one would think that if the real thing isn't as advertised, then the obvious thing would be to not waste time nor money on it. Right?

Right! Wasting your time and dough!

TishaBuv · Apr 28, 2018 at 05:13 PM

That’s funny! They must know that the guys who are expecting the girl in the photo will have sex with the substitute anyway.

PerryJeffJoeJimBob · Apr 28, 2018 at 06:16 PM

How does on even find an escort these days? All the websites they were listed on have gone dark thanks to Congress. I knew I waited to long before testing the waters

Artchic528 · Apr 28, 2018 at 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by PerryJeffJoeJimBob

How does on even find an escort these days? All the websites they were listed on have gone dark thanks to Congress. I knew I waited to long before testing he waters

"Bait and switch" tactics with escorts. Do you walk off or do you stay?

I abhor the use escorts for the soul reason that they are prone to using underage girls. This is part of the bigger problem of sex trafficking and sex slavery. It's a great thing such sites are now offline because of this reason.

Patagonia · Apr 28, 2018 at 07:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Artchic528

I abhor the use escorts for the soul reason that they are prone to using underage girls. This is part of the bigger problem of sex trafficking and sex slavery. It's a great thing such sites are now offline because of this reason.

With everything now offline the government just made this industry more dangerous. They’ve also lost all leads in sex trafficking cases. Bravo!

PerryJeffJoeJimBob · Apr 28, 2018 at 10:05 PM

Sorry, my post may have been insensitive. I should have stated only the sites where everyone seemed to be of legal age. I know sites such as Backpage and Craigslist and no telling how many others were likely allowing trafficking to occur.

I feel it should be legalized and monitored, but that is another topic.

I hope I didn't offend anyone.

butterscotch444 · Apr 30, 2018 at 02:58 PM

Lots of independent escorts! Phone #'s in papers etc..

butterscotch444 · Apr 30, 2018 at 09:09 PM

Let me take that back. I would not want to do something with someone when all they want is $!!

Anonymous37919 · Jun 07, 2018 at 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by divine1966

They do it for money so why would you think they’d care about you? They don’t know you.

Well, some aren't that respectful in general. But some are okay. It just depends.

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Anonymous37919 Account Suspended Member Since Oct 2014 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 777 10 46 hugs given	Mar 25, 2018 at 09:23 AM #1 Sometimes, you may hook up with a girl online who claims to have a profile about herself. You arrive, and it becomes apparent that it ain't actually her, or something. What would you do next? Would you stay, or just leave again?
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AspiringAuthor Veteran Member Member Since Oct 2017 Location: Mountain View Posts: 629 7 374 hugs given	Mar 25, 2018 at 11:43 PM #2 I am a girl myself and have not used escorts, but to answer your question, I would evaluate based on what I see - if you like her, you stay, and if you do not like her, you do not. Your poll does not include that option.
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OblivionIsAtHand Member Member Since Nov 2016 Location: United States Posts: 134 7	Mar 26, 2018 at 01:03 AM #3 I almost walked off one time, but I ended up staying. What a mistake. The girl looked nothing like her picture, but since it was cheap I ended up going for it. The experience was so uninteresting I kept eyeing the Xbox the escort had on her table. I was more interested in the Xbox. As a sidenote, goodbye Backpage. You will be missed.
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Artchic528 Supreme Artisan Member Since Nov 2014 Location: Charlotte, NC Posts: 6,618 9 205 hugs given	Mar 26, 2018 at 01:09 AM #4 I don't use escorts, but one would think that if the real thing isn't as advertised, then the obvious thing would be to not waste time nor money on it. Right? __________________ MY BLOG IS NOW CONVENIENTLY LOCATED HERE!! [UPDATED: 4/30/2017] LIFE IS TOO SHORT, TOO VALUABLE AND TOO PRECIOUS A THING TO WASTE!!
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Anonymous50909 Guest Posts: n/a	Mar 26, 2018 at 08:12 PM #5 I also have never used an escort, but if I found her attractive I would at least give it a shot. If she was not attractive to me I would leave. Superficial? Totally, but you're paying for it.
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Patagonia Grand Magnate Member Since Sep 2013 Location: In my own little world, NO trespassing! Posts: 4,660 11 77 hugs given	Mar 27, 2018 at 08:03 AM #6 Maybe you should spend the money on a well known, reputable escort service. __________________ "Doubt is like dye. Once it spreads into the fabric of excuses you've woven, you'll never get rid of the stain." Jodi Picoult
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Anonymous37919 Account Suspended Member Since Oct 2014 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 777 10 46 hugs given	Apr 03, 2018 at 12:47 AM #7 Did anyone vote?
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Anonymous37919 Account Suspended Member Since Oct 2014 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 777 10 46 hugs given	Apr 28, 2018 at 01:21 AM #9 I don't really see them much anymore. Why? Well, it's a massive waste of money, I wasn't enjoying myself in any case, and they don't care about you in the least. They just pretend to for your money, but make no mistake about it: I don't think they are into you at all...
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divine1966 Legendary Wise Elder Member Since Dec 2014 Location: US Posts: 22,901 (SuperPoster!) 9 1,295 hugs given	Apr 28, 2018 at 01:05 PM #10 They do it for money so why would you think they’d care about you? They don’t know you.
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downandlonely Legendary Member Since Mar 2018 Location: United States Posts: 10,760 (SuperPoster!) 6 10.6k hugs given	Apr 28, 2018 at 01:07 PM #11 I've never used an escort service, but as a woman I don't really need to.
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TishaBuv Legendary Member Since Dec 2014 Location: USA Posts: 10,258 (SuperPoster!) 9 1,879 hugs given	Apr 28, 2018 at 05:13 PM #13 That’s funny! They must know that the guys who are expecting the girl in the photo will have sex with the substitute anyway. __________________ "And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!" . About Me--T
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butterscotch444 Member Member Since Apr 2018 Location: US Posts: 89 6	Apr 30, 2018 at 02:58 PM #18 Lots of independent escorts! Phone #'s in papers etc..
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butterscotch444 Member Member Since Apr 2018 Location: US Posts: 89 6	Apr 30, 2018 at 09:09 PM #19 Let me take that back. I would not want to do something with someone when all they want is $!!
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