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Nov 18, 2007 at 08:47 PM
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as some of you may know, im a little confused about all things sex.. last time i concluded that i was asexual. here is my latest dilemma...in a way sex still irritates me, yet it doesnt totally disgust me like it used to.
confused yet? i am. i dont know how i can "like" sex, and completely utterly hate it at the same time. am i still technically asexual? anyone relate? __________________ |
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Nov 18, 2007 at 10:09 PM
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i'm a virgin, but i can relate to the confusion for sure
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Nov 19, 2007 at 12:02 AM
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I personally feel that LoVe & Hate can play into all areas of our lives......... Even that of SEX.
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Nov 21, 2007 at 08:21 PM
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thanks. at least i know im not the only confused being.
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Nov 21, 2007 at 08:55 PM
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Sexuality is confusing....always.
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Nov 24, 2007 at 07:39 AM
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Hi Gabriel,
I feel for you because I am in a similar situation. The difference with me is that I have absolutely no interest in sex. I never daydream about it, think about it, or have it. I am a happily married woman with a terrific husband who has to be the most patient man in the world. It has been at least a year since I have had sex. I no longer find it to be enjoyable nor the least bit entertaining. I don't hate sex; I just don't have any feelings for it anymore. I really miss this part of my life and the intimacy with my husband. I used to enjoy a very healthy and a quite enjoyable sex life. Now all is gone. I am confused, irritated, and have no idea how to "fix" myself. I can admit that I ruminate about my confusion daily and am not sure that I am asexual or am just forced into celibacy due to lack of interest. UGH Yes, I can relate in my own way. The difference is that you can say that you hate it. I can't say that I have any feelings for it at all. Maybe both of us will find an answer where we will have less confusion. Take Care, Peacemaker |
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Nov 26, 2007 at 09:08 AM
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hmmmm...... youre not on medication are you? i think that can have an affect on sex drive.. but otherwise yeah ive no idea why that happened..
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Nov 30, 2007 at 10:31 AM
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Gabriel,
Nope... we have ruled out medication as my issue, unfortunately. UGH Thanks for your advice though. Yep, just more confusion. Be Blessed, Peacenker (Sherri) |
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Nov 30, 2007 at 08:22 PM
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i am not sure if this applies , but I am willing to throw my 2cents in. The nmore often I have sex, the more I want it , the less often I have sex the less I want it, I gues for me it is like a momentum kind of thing.
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Dec 01, 2007 at 01:35 AM
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nice point bpd....could be..
otherwise you just learn to live without it or something? hmmmmmmmm __________________ |
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Dec 01, 2007 at 09:56 AM
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Hey Gabriel,
I can honestly say that for a long part of my teenage years the thought of sex made me sick to my stomach. I think the reason why is because I only heard bad things about what could happen. It was not until a few years later that I started to feel more comfortable. I have only had three partners and each one of them was close to me no one night stands for me. I feel that in order to have sex with someone and feel comfortable about it you have to really have a connection with that person. __________________ My life is my life it is not ruled by the broken me anymore!!!!!!! No Harm, No Foul!!! |
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