[Americano]

I met a new girl online and we had dinner and she immediately wanted to go to my place after and kiss and have sex but I was too tired. Then a day later we chill again. Wanted to have sex. The next morning she was on top of me trying to have sex again. And then wanted to shower with me no questions asked, as I was going to take a shower she just came in the bathroom with me while my mom was still home. So I just told her to wait then we showered together. I’m not sure what to make of it. I am a exceptionally attractive human being, which she often refers to. But I’m not sure if this whole thing is something to be concerned about. Maybe I should stop overthinking things and enjoy the ride, am I just thinking into it too much?

Originally Posted by Americano

I am a exceptionally attractive human being

Do you realize how that sounds to others? It's spectacular.

Exceptionally attractive human being. Interesting way to describe yourself.

I dont really see a problem here. If you want to have sex, have sex. If you dont, dont. Different people have different sex drives and hers is just higher than yours.

[Americano]

I don’t understand why that’s a bad way to describe myself? Can I not say anything good about myself. It was to make a point that it may have been the looks.

The problem is I want to have sex but can’t, I’ll figure it out.

Originally Posted by Americano

I don’t understand why that’s a bad way to describe myself? Can I not say anything good about myself. It was to make a point that it may have been the looks.

The problem is I want to have sex but can’t, I’ll figure it out.

Referring to yourself in that way makes you sound conceited. Additionally there is not such thing as an exceptionally attractive human being as it is completely subjective. Self confidence is one thing, this goes a bit far.

Secondly you didn't say you were having problems having sex in your original post. So can you clarify exactly what seems to be bothering you so we can provide more specific feedback?

[Americano]

Sorry I may be insecure, but I can’t say appearnce/attractiveness is subjective. If you could prove me wrong I’d be interested to know why. Even if you were to take your approach that it’s subjective, I am subjectively an exceptionally attractive human being. That’s not to say I’m not burdened with physical and mental disorders, or that I’m better than someone. But to the point I’ve ordered some viagra so hopefully I can make this happen as she feels it will bring us closer together...and I want to have sex life at some point as I’m getting older.

Of course appearance is subjective. Not everyone goes for the same type of person. Some like thin, some like curvy, some like tall, some like short, some like body mods, some dont and so on. I guarantee you there is not a single person in this world whom everyone thinks is attractive.

I'm glad you have self confidence and like your appearance. You're attractiveness has nothing to do with your question, which is why I found you mentioning it odd.

Anyways I dont think I have anything constructive to add here, so I'll bow out. Best of luck.

[Americano]

Really to make my story clear and concise about all the unusal things about my new girlfriends background, and how our relationship is is, would take a considerable amount of time and effort which I am trying to compose (probably in a fresh thread). It was a very interesting experience tho. This thread can be closed for me making a new one.