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Default Nov 22, 2018 at 10:08 PM
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I can understand being disgusted by the oral sex with your husband - the end result specifically. You are right that many people find this disgusting and won't engage in it. Although, there are people who love it too, and people who just tolerate it, with a take it or leave it attitude. However, I don't think this is what triggered your repulsion/phobia and other obsessions. I think your issue goes way back to your childhood. This is where most of our issues begin, sometimes overlapping later traumas as well.
Why do you think that rather than I am just grossed out like others?
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Default Nov 23, 2018 at 10:27 PM
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Why do you think that rather than I am just grossed out like others?
Because you are worried about contamination as well. Being grossed out does not always lead to worrying about contamination, unless you have a reason to worry that something is contaminated. Also, as you mentioned, you have some other obsessions going on here too, so I don't think it is just about feeling grossed out.

Feeling disgusted or repulsed may be more the end result of worrying that the body fluid is infected or contaminated with something, but what? A virus, infection, bacteria, something sinful or shameful, or something else?
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