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Dec 01, 2007 at 07:03 PM
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i was having a discussion with friends the other day and we were all torn on the spit/swallow argument... anyway if ppl could i would like to get an idea of others views of if swallowing is way too foul and shouldnt be done (which is what a lot of my friends thought)
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Dec 01, 2007 at 07:26 PM
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Dec 01, 2007 at 08:46 PM
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 hmm just don't think this is appropriate
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Dec 01, 2007 at 10:01 PM
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I can't speak for anyone else but I don't mind the question Bebop. This is the sexual issues forum, after all.
But to answer the question seriously, I would caution anyone against actually exchanging fluids unless the relationship is monogamous and both have been tested. You can still do oral with condoms so if it's not your regular partner, I'd say forget spit or swallow, use a rubber. As for with a regular partner, it's personal preference. I certainly don't regard it as too gross. Cyran0 __________________ My blog: http://cyran0.psychcentral.net/ Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder, PTSD (childhood physical/sexual abuse), history of drug abuse. Meds: Zoloft, Lorazapam, Coffee, Cigarettes "I may climb perhaps to no great heights, but I will climb alone." -Cyrano de Bergerac |
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Dec 01, 2007 at 10:16 PM
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You know, I'm not a sexually conservative person, but I think what took me aback about this post is that it was in poll form. I know that nobody has to answer it if they're uncomfortable, but this is really, really personal.
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Dec 01, 2007 at 11:07 PM
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I am a pretty open person but like you lmo it really took me by surprise too. and yes I agree with the given answer. but way too personal.
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Dec 01, 2007 at 11:19 PM
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i know when i posted this wood be a sensitive topic..
the poll is up for a day the forum says open and frank discussion i just wanted to ask the question in a safe environment after the convo my friends irl had if yall having too much issues with it i can ask a mod to delete it but i thank those who have contributed to it |
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Dec 02, 2007 at 12:31 AM
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When I do it I make sure I take it out before anything happens. I think if I swallowed I would end up throwing it back up,but I voted spit....
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Dec 02, 2007 at 02:25 AM
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While this question may come across to some people as Way to Personal....... at least it was done in a poll form, so this way you can answer (via the poll) without giving out your name or answer.
I personally cannot answer - for there is not an option for...... Move / Pull away before the moment happens. ..... and YES< as you can see - No kind of SEX talk Embarrasses ME - for it is better to ask than to be clueless. |
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Dec 02, 2007 at 02:29 AM
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ugh..i say i dont do it..probably never will...
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Dec 02, 2007 at 03:40 AM
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ive given oral...however it never made it to the......end....does this mean i am bad at giving oral??? How do you know if your bad or not....hmmmmm
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Dec 02, 2007 at 04:03 AM
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How come "carry it into the bathroom" isn't one of the choices on the poll?? LOL
I definitely don't swallow. But I don't spit it out right then and there. I sort of gracefully hold it, make my way into the bathroom, and let it go in the sink. Inny, as far as your question-- what was it that made you not able to make it to the 'end'? I would think one could only be bad if she was doing something to make it hurt. Otherwise, as long as it is being done at all, even if not spetacularly, I would think it feels good for them, lol. I like how the title of this thread gave not 1, not 2, but 3 names for this act. As if we wouldn't know what it is with just 1 name, LOL!!! Sorry everyone, but I just don't believe in 'TMI' 
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Dec 02, 2007 at 04:12 AM
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pink, pretty much. Avoid the teeth and you're good. And while it is possible to give an absolutely stunning blowjob, it's not essential. We're grateful just for the effort.
And though it's been a long time since I've been with a guy, I always just swallowed so I could keep it off my tongue. It's not a big deal if you don't taste it. Though I must reiterate that this is not safe behavior unless you're with a person you know is std free. Cyran0 __________________ My blog: http://cyran0.psychcentral.net/ Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Major Depressive Disorder, PTSD (childhood physical/sexual abuse), history of drug abuse. Meds: Zoloft, Lorazapam, Coffee, Cigarettes "I may climb perhaps to no great heights, but I will climb alone." -Cyrano de Bergerac |
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Dec 02, 2007 at 11:02 AM
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well, one to talk a lot and to always be upfront...I swallow cos it's good for you......apparently
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Dec 02, 2007 at 11:28 AM
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Dec 02, 2007 at 01:08 PM
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In my experience hand catchers are the most common, it is all good to me, as long as you keep the continuity in some form at the end.
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Dec 02, 2007 at 01:20 PM
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Yep this is frank and open alright lol.
I never got that far....um....jaw problems. Ice helped with that. I found the man of my dreams because we don't do oral at all so my dream came true. Its just too painful for me. And when I did do this, it was always in a relationship, not with a stranger. I was always too afraid of what people might have. Oh, edited to remind everyone of our young viewers. NOT saying this thread is bad, just reminding everyone that we have young viewers on the site, so while we have frank discussions, we don't get too graphic. Not saying we've gone too graphic, ah ya'll know what I mean. I'm glad safety has been mentioned - that is imperative for our young members to see. __________________ |
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Dec 02, 2007 at 01:38 PM
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Dec 02, 2007 at 02:21 PM
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Please be considerate of the younger members who read here when deciding your subject line. I personally also don't wish to have this thrown "in my face" (no pun intended here
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Dec 02, 2007 at 02:48 PM
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my... advice.... it is frank and open...forum.. so don't read if easy to offend....
can't be open... forum.. if "closed" forum.... and besides... oral sex... blow jobs...... ...............lots of fun... "frankly " speaking.. I swallow.. always... be safe.. though... |
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