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Jun 16, 2019 at 03:26 PM
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I'm having a very weird symptom and I don't have any idea what's happening. When I'm sleeping with someone I love or admire too much I'm suffering premature ejaculation which is really embarrassing and destroyed my relationship before twice with ladies that I loved so much however if I had casual sex with any lady that I don't have actual love and admiration feelings towards her I don't suffer any premature ejaculation and I don't even feel internally excited while I'm having sex with her. I checked with urology doctors and they confirmed that I'm not suffering any physical illness and they even consulted to try some medications for premature ejaculation but unfortunately with no effect. even if I was under medication once I start intercourse with a lady I love I suffering the same issue and the opposite extreme with any casual intercourse without any medications. thanks. |
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Jun 16, 2019 at 08:25 PM
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Have you tried Viagra? I know this sounds absurd but when using Viagra it can numb the penis just a little bit, which might help you. I do not recommend an SSRI or SNRI because those can really numb you emotionally. :-/
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Jun 17, 2019 at 01:29 AM
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Have you tried the stop-start method? I watched a Ted Talk from a sex educator who said it's an effective technique for preventing premature ejaculation. Something you would practice for a while.
Ever thought about consulting with a sex therapist? I had a friend who said it really helped her. I don't know what the specific issue was but something sexual that was not going well with her bf. Anyway, she said the therapist was amazing and really helped them to get back on track sexually. Your problem does not sound medical at all. Though I'm not a doc  Hope this helps a bit. I wish you well 
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Jun 17, 2019 at 04:42 AM
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Another thing you could maybe do is after a session is over, simply regain your "juices" so to speak and go at it again.
Granted, this will only work if your partner is ok with resuming as many times as either of you please. Since for some, they may no longer be in the mood after the first time. |
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Jun 17, 2019 at 06:53 AM
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Jun 18, 2019 at 11:43 PM
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This is most likely anxiety. When you are having that casual sex that does not even excite you internally, you have nothing to lose and nothing at stake - you do not care what the lady will think of you and thus you are anxiety-free. Being free from anxiety lets you last longer.
Another thing is that when are internally excited, you ejaculate faster, which makes sense - you are excited. Have you tried non-penis-centric sex with some of the women you care for? __________________ Bipolar I w/Psychotic features Zyprexa Zydis 5 mg Gabapentin 1200 mg Melatonin 10 mg Levoxyl 75 mcg (because I took Lithium in the past) past medications: Depakote, Lamictal, Lithium, Seroquel, Trazodone, Risperdal, Cogentin, Remerol, Prozac, Amitriptyline, Ambien, Lorazepam, Klonopin, Saphris, Trileptal, Clozapine and Clozapine+Wellbutrin, Topamax |
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Jun 21, 2019 at 07:13 PM
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Viagra's side effect is numbing, it can numb your penis a bit, hopefully helping you to last longer. |
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