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Because of the amount of sexual abuse I went through over the 15 month ordeal I was in and the emotional abuse of being called so many degrading names I feel completely dirty and never feel that I will be loved by a guy. I know deep down that all of those sexual acts that I had to go through were forced onto me and not my choice, but it still happened. Will there ever be a guy that can look beyond all that or am I going to be alone or going to end up with guys that just abuse me for the rest of my life? I am 16 years old and my friends and peers are mostly all dating and some in relationships, but not me because I fear this so much that I am going to be hurt again.
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I'm so sorry you had that trauma. I hope you're getting whatever help you need.
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I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. I would strongly encourage seeing a therapist if you are not already doing so - they can help you work through these feelings of fear. You will not be alone forever, there are beautiful, understanding people out there who will honour your feelings and take their time with you. Plus you're only 16! You have so much time to grow, heal, learn and meet lots of wonderful people. You are not and will not be alone. xx
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Thanks so much everyone. I do hope I can find a loving guy who understands my past and can love me even though I have major difficulties. I just feel like it is going to have to be some really special boy.
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I sincerely hope your dreams and desires are fulfilled and you find what you need. I am optimistic that you will. Stay strong and good luck.
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I'm so sorry you had to endure such horrendous abuse.
![]() ![]() I think there is every reason to believe you will be able to find that special guy who will love & accept you. But right now what may be most important is to find a pathway to loving yourself so that you have the inner strength to steer clear of the wrong guy(s) & to be ready when the right guy comes along. ![]() My Journey to Loving Myself Following Sexual Abuse 22 Ways to Love Yourself More | Happily Imperfect ![]() ![]()
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So sorry to hear what you have had to go through. I never dated til i got into my late twenties. I hope you can trust a therapist to help you through what you have experience. I am a survivor of sexual abuse childhood and raped. It's very tough to feel good sometimes, just remember you are a very strong beautiful person. Hugs
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