[Aviza]

Sexting two guys and one wants to break the stay home order, the other is married. I could have two more but broke it off with them today. One an ex boyfriend. One a guy i mistakenly took too far once.

I love married guy. I'm trying to like other guy who wants to take me on a boat ride Saturday. None are good prospects, but married guy really stimulates.me on so many levels. I tried to say no but my hormones keep saying yes.

The other guy i don't even want to see but don't know how to break the date. Hormones suck they get me in so much trouble. I'm a sex fiend.

[~Christina]

Why not just masterbate to take the edge off, Right now with Covid 19.. What if the one guy broke social distancing and you guys hooked up and he was shedding Covid and you catch it??? Are you still staying at your Moms ? then she could easily catch it too.. Why take the risk??? Lack of sex never killed anyone.

As for married guy??? your in Love with someone that has no problems cheating on his wife??? What about him is so wonderful? hes certainly not loving nor loyal to her why do you think he would be for you?

Do whatever you feel is okay but please use condoms

[divine1966]

Please don’t go on boat rides during pandemics. Actually don’t go on rides with strangers at any time. Well you know my opinion on sleeping with married men.

This is rough time. Isolation might push people to do stupid things. Way too dangerous. Masturbate for now. People can’t die of not having sex but they can die from covid, unprotected sex, dangerous trips etc just be safe please

[Aviza]

He's not a stranger we've been on 2 dates, this would be 3rd date. Decided not to have sex until i get all clear from ob/gyn.

[divine1966]

Originally Posted by Aviza

He's not a stranger we've been on 2 dates, this would be 3rd date. Decided not to have sex until i get all clear from ob/gyn.

2 dates is nothing. 2 dates isn’t enough. Unless it’s a boat with 1000 people on it like ferry or something or a cruise, it’s not safe.

Plus I don’t think it’s safe to go on dates during pandemics (unless people already live together).

You don’t know how this person lives and if he spreads covid or what not. Even people who know each other or family members shouldn’t come near each other but you are going to see this guy, whom you do not know. Please wait until everything settles and even then go on dates in public places only. Please practice safety

[Nammu]

Aren't you a bit long in the tooth to be blaming hormones for your impulsive risky behaviors.

[sarahsweets]

Originally Posted by Nammu

Aren't you a bit long in the tooth to be blaming hormones for your impulsive risky behaviors.

I am sure you meant well with this comment but imo it could have been said differently. How old is Aviza? I am 45 and my sexual hormones seem to be peaking now. I am married but its like a second whim. How old is long in the tooth>

[medievalbushman]

Originally Posted by Nammu

Aren't you a bit long in the tooth to be blaming hormones for your impulsive risky behaviors.

I agree with Sarahsweets, this could have been worded a bit better, but, carrying on... As Sarahsweets pointed out, it's pretty common for women to experience a resurgence in sexual desire and needs due to changes in their menopause and such. I'm not claiming to be any kind of expert or anything, but I've read enough to know this is a lot more common than most young 'uns like myself know.

However, that doesn't change the fact that exploring new or even previously sporadic sexual relationships right now amidst a pandemic... would not be a wise decision.

I'm curious, you've been on here longer than I have, but... have you tried mindfulness exercises? They definitely help me when I'm having harsh cravings, perhaps they'd be a help for you?