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May 16, 2021 at 04:52 PM
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And I know I’ll most likely need to see a doctor but I’ll just say what’s going on.
These last few weeks it’s been really painful to masturbate and then afterwards I start bleeding a good amount. This morning it was so painful I couldn’t even get off. I had to give up while still being super horny and I just ended up frustrated. I did mention it to my female therapist. She said I needed to tell my doctor. My doctor is a male and I feel weird talking about this kind of stuff with a guy even if he is a doctor. So I chickened out and didn’t tell him. Also he’ll probably tell me to go to the gynecologist and I’d rather have dental work done then go there. But I’m not sure if I should be concerned about this or not.... and I don’t want to talk to my mom about it because I don’t tell her any of this stuff. I googled it but basically all it said is it’s either nothing to worry about or it’s incredibly serious. Googling medical stuff can be useless and scary at the same time. __________________ I'm Blue |
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May 16, 2021 at 05:11 PM
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You need to get it seen to. Can you not ask to see a female doc?
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May 16, 2021 at 05:27 PM
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So I did some more research and it may be a problem with the lining of my uterus. My gynecologist told me that if my lining was messed up it would be medically necessary for me to get a hysterectomy and insurance would pay for it and I wouldn’t be drilled non stop about if I want kids or not. She said it’s pretty much impossible for someone my age to get a hysterectomy if it’s not medically necessary. So maybe this isn’t all that bad. But I do need a new gynecologist and a LQBTQ friendly one.
I did finally mention it to my mom. But I only told her that I was bleeding down there sometimes and it caused pain. __________________ I'm Blue |
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May 16, 2021 at 05:30 PM
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Maybe stop researching... researching could be bad for you as you start thinking all sorts of things. Only a medical professional can sort you out. So call someone asap ok... no more researching
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May 16, 2021 at 05:31 PM
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Well when you have absolutely no one to talk to like I did and you are already freaked out by it you have to do what you have to do.
I am in a new state and I don’t have much medical support right now until I can find someone. I still have my primary but telehealth appointments aren’t the greatest and I don’t see him until after my other surgery. __________________ I'm Blue |
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May 16, 2021 at 05:32 PM
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You spoke to your therapist... she says to contact your doc. Please do so. That's the only way your gonna see what's wrong. Medical advice is needed
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