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Feb 11, 2008 at 12:23 AM
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Hallo. Yes its me again. Me, effed up me. Well...recently, I started questionning my sexuality. i mean, ever since I was younger, I've always wanted to be a boy. weird huh. even though I like males, i wanted to BE a male. strange..and stranger. I also imagine myself being a guy, every time i dream its usually me as a guy...anyway, even though im like boy-mad, I also think i might be Bi. im not sure. sometimes i get an urge to kiss my frends. or hug them or ...uh...awkwardness...do sexual acts with them. OMG yes. how embarrassing...=/ but then I think im just going throo a phrase, after all i am a teenagers. hormones and all that %#@&#! ya noe.
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Wise Elder
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Feb 11, 2008 at 01:58 AM
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Its OK to be having feelings like the ones you mentioned....... now it is up to you to try and sort out all your feelings and see if you are indeed Bi-sexual or are you dealing with wounds from with in that often leave us with these issues until we are healed or at least half healed. I too use to feel like you are due to the sexual abuse I suffered thru from men in my life for ten years..... but now since I have found my own place of belonging via healing I see (and feel) that I am heterosexual female. |
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Magnate
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Feb 11, 2008 at 08:18 PM
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one of the worst things you can do is constantly tell yourself its a phase. if it is, then it is. but if it isnt, then telling yourself that it is will only lead to self-hate. its not weird, and its not abnormal. there are many other people who feel just the way you do. the reason you think its weird, is because society keeps these people hidding under the carpet. theyre not "normal" so theyre not accepted. i bet, if you searched, you could find forums like this one with people who are going through the same things you are. just dont discount yourself for feeling that way. be open to new things and try not to hate yourself for feeling that way. i hope you figure out what you are or arent.
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Feb 11, 2008 at 11:29 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
salukigirl said: one of the worst things you can do is constantly tell yourself its a phase. if it is, then it is. but if it isnt, then telling yourself that it is will only lead to self-hate. its not weird, and its not abnormal. there are many other people who feel just the way you do. the reason you think its weird, is because society keeps these people hidding under the carpet. theyre not "normal" so theyre not accepted. i bet, if you searched, you could find forums like this one with people who are going through the same things you are. just dont discount yourself for feeling that way. be open to new things and try not to hate yourself for feeling that way. i hope you figure out what you are or arent. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> thnx all for the advic.e =] xx __________________ |
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Grand Poohbah
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Mar 02, 2008 at 12:23 PM
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Its okay, everyone is different.
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