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Poohbah
Member Since Jun 2005
Location: Ontario, Canada
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It's time for bed right now so I'll write more tomorrow, but I just want to say, I'm sooooo confused!
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aren't we all?!?
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Poohbah
Member Since Jun 2005
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1,474
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First of all, I'm not sure if I"m going to dating sites right now because I want a relationship or if it's because my Mom wants me to have a relationship.
Second, I'm not sure if I'm asexual or not. I've been thinking about a life without sex and I'm not sure I would like that. So right now I'm chatting with 3 guys from the asexual dating site and one guy from the normal dating site. The first guy I chatted with is nice, but then he revealed to me that he has an anger problem and that is a dealbreaker for me. So no I only chat with him as a friend. The second guy was the black guy. I told him I thought I was asexual and his response was to meet him tomorrow at his place and he'll pleasure me and then we'll find out if I were really asexual. Now that totally scared me off! I get the feeling that sex is very important to this guy, that scares me off. I don't know if he likes me for being me or because he wants sex. Then the third guy, I told him about the asexual thing and it didn't scare him away. He is more intrigued with me than ever. He says he just wants to be friends, but he flirts a lot and I like it! He makes me question whether I'm asexual or not. Now this guy would also be more acceptable to my parents because he's white. I'm just soooo confused right now. I never thought I would have this problem of too many guys who like me. LOL Am I asexual or not? Perhaps I'm just afraid of sex? I don't know! Ok, I've chatting with three men from the asexual dating site. The first guy is very childish. I think he just never wants to grow up. The second guy fires all these questions at me. He seems to really want to find his soulmate. I'm also not attracted to him, but since I'm supposed to be asexual, does that even matter?? Ugh. I'm also not attracted to the 3rd guy. Right now I'll have to admit that I like the guy from the normal dating site, the white guy who flirts with me. I'm like afraid to sign onto MSN now! I have to chat with so many guys! It gets confusing. __________________ |
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