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Poohbah
Member Since Jun 2005
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Feb 21, 2008 at 04:42 AM
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So I've blocked the guy who wanted to pleasure me the next day to convince me I wasn't asexual. That totally scared me away. Plus, I wasn't all that attracted to him so I guess it wasn't meant to be.
Anyways, this other guy I told the same thing to, but he's OK with the asexual thing. He starts flirting with me and I like it and now I'm pretty sure I'm not asexual. I'm not very sexually experienced and have had sex maybe a handful of times, but for some reason I start talking about sex a lot around him. Telling him I imagine sleeping with him etc. He naturally like this a lot. LOL Anyways, all the sex talk has been started by me. Some of which include chocolate sauce. LOL I told him it'll be a long time before I was ready for sex and he seems OK with that. I even sent him my ugly picture and he still likes me. I'm probably not asexual eh? LOL Am I a slut or something? __________________ 
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Feb 21, 2008 at 05:55 AM
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Lmao noooooooooooo you are NOT a slut lol you are perfectly normal !
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Magnate
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Location: Fayetteville, AR
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Feb 21, 2008 at 12:37 PM
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you just had to put the 'eh' in there didnt you? lol.
maybe im too science minded, but humans arent asexual. lol. i know you don't mean in the sense that you can reproduce using longitudinal binary fission lol. but still. i think everyone has those feelings in them, just takes the right person to allow you to express them. youre not a slut. having sex a handful of times? nah. youre not a slut, eh. lol |
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Feb 21, 2008 at 09:26 PM
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That's a huge double standard to me. If a guy sleeps with a LOT of women, do you ever hear his friends calling him a slut? Didn't think so...But it falls on women.
You're not a slut, you're just really attracted to him and you're just learning. After all, if you ever do find "the one", you'll have that much more experience for him! ^-^ |
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Poohbah
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Location: Ontario, Canada
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Feb 22, 2008 at 03:32 AM
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I think I want to find someone who really loves me. Someone who will wait until we are married or at least engaged before having sex.
The first time I had sex, I thought I was in love, but I guess I wasn't. I'm pretty sure he loved me though. I broke his heart breaking up with him. He just couldn't accept it at first. I bet he would have waited until we were married. It was my idea to have sex, not his. I made all the moves. In the end it just wasn't meant to be. I never grew attached to him. I'm starting to think maybe there is something wrong with me. Maybe I can't attach to people? I don't know. I worry about this. Anyone who loves me deserves love from me as well. __________________
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