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I'm in a funk... I know this is kind of personal...But I had sex with my girlfriend with out a condom on...Only for like...2 min...I didnt ejaculate in her or anything like that ( and I dont know what I was thinking...i dont know why we did it with out a condom) but Then after I was done I thought " what about pre-ejaculate?" and Started worrying...Now she hasnt had her period in a long time and shes a few days late, and thats FREAKING ME OUT!! what do I do!?
She usually gets it at the last week of the month and shes a few days late. |
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Grand Poohbah
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Well Non...there's not much you can do now. Except remember this
the next time you 2 are intimate. Remember the Love Glove..Its protection not only for pregnancy but also you have to remember STD's too. In the Mean-time Non...you should get her a home pregnancy test kit, like...Easy blue or something like that? So you can ease your mind!!! Then go from there..OK? If its positive...then you go from there. But lst get the home test. Ok good luck...NON!.... __________________ |
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ziggy1 said: the next time you 2 are intimate. Remember the Love Glove.. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I agree....... for there have been cases of females getting pregnant without the male actually going inside of her - but the sperm had leaked out while his penis was close enough to her opening. Please be careful...... for you and your gf. |
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Woops! Hey things happen, um I wish you the best. Yea some people get prego a lot easier than others but hopefully if your not ready for baby, she isn't pregnant. Hopefully. Good luck, keep us posted.
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If she's only a few days late, a home pregnancy test will not be accurate for a few days....are her breasts sore and are her nipples darker? A crisis pregnancy center or planned parenthood agency can begin to discuss options with both of you.......
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She said non of that has happened...She has no early pregnancy signs...shes really stressed from school and stuff...That could be shes late...But theres still that possibility of her being pregnant and thats whats scaring us.
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Stuff happens. If I had a dollar for every pregnancy scare my wife and I have had--as an engaged couple and married--I'd be rich. You just gotta' learn to consistently use birth control if you don't want a pregnancy. Mistakes happen, and people get carried away in the heat of the moment. Get that pregnancy test at the drug store and get an answer to your worries. Don't go down that road of 'what if' until you have the facts. Let us know what happens.
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if you would have thought about it at the time, she could have gotten a prescription from her doctor for the 72 hour pill. but it sounds like youre past that point. doesnt sound like anything will happen. she could be psyching herself out. stress, diet, sleep patterns - tons of things can throw off a woman's cycle and make her late. so if she is scared about it, it could be stressing her out to the point of making her late. drug store pregnancy tests can only do 5 days after the missed period at the fastest. you could always go down to the hospital and have them do a blood test. that will be more accurate and available sooner. good luck.
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Shes not pregnant!!!!
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Congratulations. I'm sure you wont make that mistake again.
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Glad to hear that non....!!! Don't push your luck again..use protection...
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I'll never do this again!
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