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Wise Elder
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Mar 28, 2008 at 10:51 AM
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This thread is for the ladies that cannot or rarely ever get to have an orgasm........ "O"
Have you ever tried a combo method of having sex with your man while he is wearing a penis ring that vibrates and has an attachments on it to help stimulate the clitoris? (ex: turbo bull with vibrating bullet and horns that reach out and touch someone). It works wonder for me as I age, deal with medical problems and take medicines that decrease my sexual ability. |
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Elder
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Mar 28, 2008 at 10:54 AM
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 im going to break down and cry any minute now....... Hey honey, you know how you never know what to get me for Christmas every year.... I want a Turbo bull with vibrating bullet and horns.... maybe your mom and dad can get me one |
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Wise Elder
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Mar 28, 2008 at 11:00 AM
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Brian37 said: Hey honey, you know how you never know what to get me for Christmas every year.... I want a Turbo bull with vibrating bullet and horns.... maybe your mom and dad can get me one </div></font></blockquote><font class="post">  - my husband and I shopped online for Mr. Toro and he has been a welcomed addition to the family ever since - 
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Legendary
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Mar 28, 2008 at 11:07 AM
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hmmm interesting! will have do search for that. my dh would never go into an adult store to buy anything like that.
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Wise Elder
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Mar 28, 2008 at 11:12 AM
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If you decide to use old Mr. Toro just PM me and I will send you the link to site I use...... it is very good and you can even view these items on TV as two ladies explains them and talk about what their many toys can do for you , both him & her (the show is on around 2 am in the morning - lol).
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Elder
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Mar 28, 2008 at 11:20 AM
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lol..........ive seen that show when i was doing the 2 a.m. feedings with my son..........it helped wake me up!
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Grand Member
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Mar 28, 2008 at 11:35 AM
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just make sure you dont get him a ring that is too wide for him, that might take the thunder out of the bull
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Wise Elder
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Mar 28, 2008 at 11:43 AM
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heyjoe said: just make sure you dont get him a ring that is too wide for him, that might take the thunder out of the bull </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> True oh how true....... but Mr. Toro should fit most sizes from med to large, probably even small as you have to stretch him to get him on (like a rubber band) - then he tightens back up around the penis. Lock & Loaded............... 
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Mar 28, 2008 at 11:52 AM
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Oh Yeah - and "Talk Sex with Sue Johanson" is a good website to check out as well....... Sue is a nurse and she has a TV show on the Oxygen channel where she talks openly about sex and she answers call in questions.
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Mar 28, 2008 at 11:57 AM
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If I could get my husband to let me get any type of toy that would make things soooo much better. He just laughs at the thought of it.
Only time we ever do anything, it has to be after 11 PM with EVERY light in the house off and he barely even looks at me. Never anything different. I've tried. I really don't know what his deal is. My gut almost tells me that maybe there is something from his past that is causing all this but he won't tell me and it just kills me. Especially because I just feel so incredibly guilty for all the crap I've done to him...and if he did have some past abuse or something...that just makes me even worse. Sex shouldn't matter that much. I should love him enough that I could go without it if he wasn't capable, you know? Like if he got in some car accident and was paralyzed from the waist down, I should be able to love him enough that I could live the rest of my life without it. Right. So why can't I control myself when it's only been a few months of rejection??? Ugh...sorry I took this off topic again. |
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Mar 28, 2008 at 04:19 PM
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I've tried the vibrating ring..... didn't work. Still need to use fingers to get the job done. Is that not normal for most women??
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Mar 28, 2008 at 04:49 PM
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Julianne said: I've tried the vibrating ring..... didn't work. Still need to use fingers to get the job done. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Oh, but I am not talking about using it by your self, I am talking about using it with your man....... meaning he is wearing it before he enters you - this way you get inside stimulation and outside stimulation - a double whammy for the ladies. |
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Mar 28, 2008 at 11:44 PM
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I have to say, I love toys. My wife loves some toys but I love 'em more.
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Silver Swan
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May 11, 2008 at 10:06 PM
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I think it SHOULD matter! Looking at somebody while you are in the throws of ecstasy - from HIM- is a POWERFUL emotional connection!
</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> If I could get my husband to let me get any type of toy that would make things soooo much better. He just laughs at the thought of it. Only time we ever do anything, it has to be after 11 PM with EVERY light in the house off and he barely even looks at me. Never anything different. I've tried. I really don't know what his deal is. My gut almost tells me that maybe there is something from his past that is causing all this but he won't tell me and it just kills me. Especially because I just feel so incredibly guilty for all the crap I've done to him...and if he did have some past abuse or something...that just makes me even worse. Sex shouldn't matter that much. I should love him enough that I could go without it if he wasn't capable, you know? Like if he got in some car accident and was paralyzed from the waist down, I should be able to love him enough that I could live the rest of my life without it. Right. So why can't I control myself when it's only been a few months of rejection??? Ugh...sorry I took this off topic again. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> __________________ Wellbutrin XL 300 mg Ingrezza 80 mg Propranolol 20 mg 2x/day Mania (December 2023) Mixed episode/Hypomania (September 2023) Depression, Anxiety and Intrusive thoughts (September 2021) Depression & Psychosis (July/August 2021) Mania (April/May 2019) |
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May 11, 2008 at 10:09 PM
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Julianne said: I've tried the vibrating ring..... didn't work. Still need to use fingers to get the job done. Is that not normal for most women?? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Possibly. I am a weirdo though- I HATE fingers to be added! Its distracting. I'd must prefer "the real thing, baby". 
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May 12, 2008 at 03:14 PM
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razzle I think if it were a physical disability it would be very different. the rejection makes us want it more and at times will seek it out.
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May 12, 2008 at 04:10 PM
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I had to ease my husband into trying new things esp toys..... He still has some hang ups but he tries... I enjoy them... and I enjoy trying new ways to spice up our sex life....
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May 12, 2008 at 09:20 PM
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My BF LOVES toys. I like em too, but he LOVES them.
I have a hard time with just the basic sex because I require clitoral stimulation in order to achieve the big "O". Besides the meds make it difficult sometimes, too. Luckily, my BF likes to spend LOTS of time focusing on pleasing ME. 
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May 13, 2008 at 05:43 PM
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I can only get off through masturbation...
Honestly I've never used toys...I guess I'd be too embarrassed. But sex with a guy will NEVER result in an orgasm for me... |
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May 15, 2008 at 12:51 PM
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Yeah I'm the same way - can only O from clitoral stimulation. Either masturbating or receiving oral. Which rarely happens anymore...
 One time - and one time only - I did O from intercourse that got my G spot. But I have not been able to duplicate that since. And I've noticed, since I started Zoloft, that I can no longer get there from masturbating. I don't know about anything else yet...my husband hasn't touched me since I started the Zoloft over a month ago... |
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