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Old Apr 07, 2008, 06:42 PM
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For married/seriously dating couples....the never-ending question. How often do you have sex?

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Old Apr 07, 2008, 07:01 PM
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At this point in life I'm happy with the concept of *Quality over quantity* infinately more satisfying and much less frustrating How Often?

But hey different horses for different courses!
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Old Apr 07, 2008, 07:55 PM
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ok who put 5+ times a week......were not counting masturbating are we?
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Old Apr 07, 2008, 07:57 PM
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Old Apr 07, 2008, 08:01 PM
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Ok....a few specifics I guess.

Masturbation does not count (I guess you could count mutual if you want to)

I'm looking for your "average" when you're normal - obviously if you're pregnant or in your 6 week postpartum or if his winkie just got injured then that's different. Average.
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Old Apr 07, 2008, 08:08 PM
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ok who put 5+ times a week......were not counting masturbating are we?

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me How Often? and no...masturbation don't count.

now scuse me while i go die of embarrassment that somebody actually had the gall to ask How Often?
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Old Apr 07, 2008, 08:23 PM
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How Often? Now this is a question I have learning in >>>..

5 times a week is a low ball figure when you have two peeps in that newness thing ..

Then after a year it manifests it's self as 5 times a week >> maybe ?

Some years later ya get to make a couple dates a week >> Not always to the same date on the calander >> How Often? > with a dash of dates >> No big whoop if ya never coincide at this point either ..

From here ya start on D E C A D E S !!!!

Hope by now ya know how to cook well [ both sexes ] How Often?

News Years eve comes and goes .. birthdays >.. { just another day }.

And then it starts...................... Vivid dreams of Loves Past and .. Scratch yer head >> get something to eat ... And get asked >>>. WHAT !!!!! You Didn't Fix me some Too ???? How Often?
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apparently 1-2 times a week is about average for a relationship once it is over the honeymoon period. but of course there are going to be outliers from the average either way (e.g., those more on the 'hardly ever' or 'never' end and those who do it most nights...
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Old Apr 07, 2008, 09:10 PM
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at about wet dreams?..do they count?
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Old Apr 07, 2008, 09:13 PM
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Unfortunalty my sex drive tends to be much higher than my wife's
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at about wet dreams?..do they count?

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LMAO How Often? How Often? How Often?
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Old Apr 07, 2008, 09:16 PM
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usually that seems to be the pattern Tim...?
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Old Apr 07, 2008, 11:26 PM
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DARN IT - if you had only asked this question twenty years ago I could have answered 5+ times a week...... How Often?
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Old Apr 07, 2008, 11:28 PM
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oh somebody please tell me sex-drive doesn't ALWAYS diminish with age How Often?
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Old Apr 07, 2008, 11:33 PM
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oh somebody please tell me sex-drive doesn't ALWAYS diminish with age How Often?

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No - not always......... health issues play a major part in it too.
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Old Apr 07, 2008, 11:42 PM
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this is SUCH a sore subject for me right now!!!! How Often?
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Old Apr 08, 2008, 02:43 AM
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My sex drive increased with age (although I am still not at hubby's level), when I was young I didn't really know what I was doing.
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Old Apr 08, 2008, 02:51 AM
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No where near how much I want but we cant all have what we want can we .....

I marked the once a week box.
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Old Apr 08, 2008, 10:13 AM
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The question ain't how often- it's HOW GOOD!!!!!!! Mine is pretty %#@&#! good!!!! How Often?
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Old Apr 08, 2008, 10:31 AM
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The question ain't how often- it's HOW GOOD!!!!!!! Mine is pretty %#@&#! good!!!! How Often?

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I hear you there....... and hubby was good to me twice in one night over the weekend - w00t w00t - How Often?

How Often? How Often? How Often? How Often? How Often? How Often? How Often? How Often? How Often? How Often?
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Old Apr 08, 2008, 11:10 AM
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im jealous.........
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Old Apr 08, 2008, 11:17 AM
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so am I! lol
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Old Apr 08, 2008, 11:22 AM
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Unfortunalty my sex drive tends to be much higher than my wife's

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usually that seems to be the pattern

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Not for every marriage.....although the stereotype just makes it all that much more fun for women who get rejected all the time...
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Old Apr 08, 2008, 12:27 PM
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How Often? How Often? How Often?
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Old Apr 08, 2008, 01:04 PM
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I checked a few times a month. It would be more frequent but, ya know, young kids. I'm hoping things will pick up once I get the kids sent off to some distant military school or something.

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