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May 20, 2008 at 03:02 AM
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i have thought about becoming bi but don't know how to go about that what do u guys think i should tell my friends
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Elder
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May 20, 2008 at 06:50 AM
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if they are truly your friends, they will understand and support you fully, just make sure it is what you truly want.
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May 20, 2008 at 08:42 AM
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I say that you need to go with what you are feeling!! Your friends should understand...if they do not, then you are moving into a new life style where you will make friends that understand you. I have friends that have went from straight to bi to even gay...and we are still friends!! They are still the same person I knew when they were straight...they just prefer a different sexual relations. It will be fine.....
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Wise Elder
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May 20, 2008 at 08:52 AM
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Most friends & even family members will be OK with it - so don't worry to much over this new life change for your self and know that it does not / will not change who you are (have been) to the ones that already know you.
BTW - the easiest way to tell others is to make direct comments about how you think you like girls & boys and by the time it happens all will have been well recieved by your friends. |
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Grand Magnate
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May 20, 2008 at 09:16 AM
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ttlt said: i have thought about becoming bi but don't know how to go about that what do u guys think i should tell my friends </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I didn't realize that this was an intellectual issue ttlt... You either are or your not and whatever your inclination is,,,it is your inclination and that,,,like your feet,,your hair or your eye color is really out of your control,,it is who you are... And good freinds are not about changing you,,,they are about loving you for who you are... IMHO. Lenny __________________ I have only one conclusion,,and that is things change too quickly for me to draw them.... Sobriety date...Halloween 1989. I was plucked from hell...and treat this gift as if it is the only one... |
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Legendary
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May 20, 2008 at 10:41 AM
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until you know if you are bi or not you really don't need to tell anyone at all.
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Poohbah
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May 23, 2008 at 10:03 AM
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It seems like your a bit confused about whether you are bi or not (I've never come across thats its a 'decision' that people make lol), so what I'd suggest is to experiment and see how you feel about the issue...
If it seems that you are then heck, SO WHAT! It shouldnt matter what other people think about it! And if your friends are true friends, then you wont have to worry about what they think  Good luck hun, babyg xXx __________________ ~ HEY! I run a site on mental health called The Manic Years. I'm looking for some brave souls to share their own personal encounters with mental health. Are you up for sharing your story? Please get in touch on themanicyears@gmail.com. Thank you  ~Follow my blog here; http://themanicyears.com Lola Olivia ~ 7/11/11 ~ my reason for breathing Bipolar Affective Disorder type 2 - (2013) 'Borderline traits' Dissociative episodes |
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Poohbah
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May 23, 2008 at 10:22 AM
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Well from experience, the only way to know for sure is to experiment and then you will know for sure. Plus it isn't just something that you wake up one day and say I think I am going to be bi, gay, lesbian or transgender..if you have any questions just PM me.
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Grand Poohbah
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May 25, 2008 at 03:37 AM
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Thinking about going bi? Well, hmmmmmmmm only share it with your true friends.
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Jun 06, 2008 at 07:32 PM
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Ditto with what purplebutterfly said...if you have a feeling...experiment....if it feels right then good..if not at least you know for sure...I think i have always been pretty gay...but it all strted with the first relationship...you will figure it out in time...if you need any one to talk to im here for you too...
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