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Junior Member
Member Since Jun 2008
Location: Orlando, Florida
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Jun 19, 2008 at 06:15 PM
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This question is from my boyfriend, he wants to know how he can last longer? He has a problem with premature ejacluation? I mean sex is great with him, but I wish we could just have sex and that be enough, normally he has to give me oral sex, finger me and use a dildo for an hour before I achieve orgasm, and then he has sex and its done in a minute, and its sad but I want to achieve orgasm during sex with him.
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Legendary
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Location: Ga
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Jun 19, 2008 at 07:01 PM
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not really sure what is going on here. if it takes you an hour to achieve orgasm are you relaxing enough? I don't really know alot of guys that can control it that long and not get off sooner. not saying anything bad here just that wow!
 my poor hubby would be worn out. and he is pretty fast. maybe try to relax more and for him it might last longer. __________________ He who angers you controls you! |
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Elder
Member Since Feb 2008
Location: Indiana
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Jun 19, 2008 at 07:39 PM
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Zoloft!
its prescribed for men with premature ejaculation |
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Wise Elder
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Jun 20, 2008 at 01:12 AM
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Have you tried having him stimulate you to the point of almost having an orgasm but stopping and letting him enter you - then you to come together?
And you might want to look into buying a penis ring that he wears and it stimulates you...... works great. You can read about it. http://forums.psychcentral.com/showf...&o=186&fpart=1 |
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Member Since Jun 2008
Location: arkansas for now
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Jun 20, 2008 at 11:57 PM
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lasting longer? try to go ahead and get him off and let him stimulate u and arouse him at the same time. if he can last two times then he'll be longer the second time.
just try and see if he can go two times. just let him get off and arouse him again while hes stimulating u. it might help bc he'll be with u longer. also, i agree with some of the info above. being relaxed will help. u might be thinking that ur a burden to ur boy or something like that. and believe me ur not, he wouldnt be with u that long if he didnt want to help u. just relax and clear ur mind and think about having an O and thats all. concentrate on the feel and stuff like that. just be calm. hope this helps. best of luck. |
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Jan 2008
Location: Michigan
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Jun 21, 2008 at 07:21 PM
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if you go to pure romance website, they sell a product called time in a bottle. I bought it, but never used it on hubby, but ive heard great things about it.
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