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Default Aug 18, 2008 at 05:07 AM
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i am not sexually active and haven't been for quite some time due to Erectile Disorder. my doctor provided me with viagra and i think it is wise to tell my partner about having to take the medicine to get my libido started up again because it would provide an open door to talking about sex. i think that i deserve the healthy sex life i never had...does anyone have any suggestions on this issue?
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Default Aug 18, 2008 at 07:55 AM
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I don't think there is a more important ingredient to anything healthy,,than communication. I applaud your idea in bringing up the medication as a means of beginning a discussion.

Great sex is based upon an honest exchange of fantasies, needs and offerings...it suffers greatly from "shooting from the hip"..parden the pun...

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Default Aug 18, 2008 at 06:38 PM
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You DO deserve a healthy sex life, everyone does!! I'm working on feeling I deserve things, too........communication is key, here........

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Default Aug 21, 2008 at 09:49 PM
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i think that i deserve the healthy sex life i never had...does anyone have any suggestions on this issue?

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I think you do too. We all do. I don't have any suggestions, but I do agree with what Lenny said. I think our culture is kinda shy when it comes to sex, but if you can have open and honest discussions about it, that seems like the best approach.

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