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Sep 05, 2008 at 09:17 PM
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I am DEAD serious, don't make fun. I am tired of feeling inadequate about the opposite sex, tired of getting tiresome and unrequited crushes on people who I know are TOTALLY out of my league, and I have no way, whatsoever-(IN HELL) of connecting with these guys or vice versa, tired of seeing immature "boys" (not men) around me who want to date me (and not the ones I actually am into), tired of LUST,and tired of wishing I wasn't alone.
How do you achieve asexuality quickly? Is it a gradual state of mind? PLEASE? Anyone got any ideas? I think I have RUN MY COURSE IN HETEROSEXUALITY... I mean, for one thing, I can focus on other things in my life without worrying about the opposite sex...like my CAREER aspirations for example... It just ain't fair. Sorry...I hope I don't sound childish but I deserve FAR better than what I have been getting... |
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Member Since Jul 2008
Location: Williamson County, Texas, USA
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Sep 06, 2008 at 03:09 PM
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Dear Angel,
Yes, you need to let it go! You can't find happiness in the arms of another. You must forge ahead with your career, and your other life goals. Once you choose to make your romantic endeavors ancillary, rather than primary, you may find the love you seek in a heart beat. I wish you the best, Larry |
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Member Since Oct 2008
Location: Electric Ladyland
Posts: 14
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Oct 19, 2008 at 10:19 PM
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Sweetie I think you're simply frustrated right now.
Take a big long break from guys. You don't have to give them up forever in order to find peace. I think the most important thing is that you learn to be independent of your relationships. Relationships are there to enhance the living experience, they are not the most important thing in the world, YOU are...make sure you remember that! Good luck, - Dianne 
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Member Since Jun 2008
Location: Cainta Rizal, Philippines
Posts: 179
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Oct 19, 2008 at 11:44 PM
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Hi Angel! Sounded like you have lots of baggage there. All I can say is just learn to let go of all your baggage and who might have know? Maybe tomorrow or in the next coming days you are already appreciating others. Always be happy!!! 
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