Busted: How to confront?

I have a situation that's really bugging me.

Let me explain - My fiancée and I are re-modeling our living room. We just got the dry wall up a couple of weeks ago, had a finisher come in and put up a texture on the drywall and we've painted the room & ceiling in it's entirety.

It looks great, btw.

That aside, we have all of our furniture in the computer area. Which is also where we happen to have a security camera set up. It's an IP camera and records motion directly to my desktop and when set to - will upload motion triggered images or videos to my ftp server.

Today - I stayed home from work as i'm feeling really horrible. I must have caught some sort of bug going around - and w/all this free time, I figured it would be a good thing to go through all my old security images and delete what need not be there.

Going through the videos, I saw my fiancee begin to play w/herself at my computer. Not a bad thing.

Then - Her phone rings. She stops, and answers her phone. Toward the end of the call - she begins to play w/herself again, while ON THE PHONE. It certainly wasn't me on the other end!

She knew the camera was on as she looked up at it, smiled and made a kissy face like she knew I would watch or something at the beginning of the video.

She's at work right now and won't be home until tomorrow night. My question is, how do I confront her with this video? I absolutely need to know just who was on the other line.

I want to call her right now and confront her about it but then again, I want to talk w/her face to face and see her immediate reaction, w/o giving her a full day to think about what to say.

We've had our trust issues in the past but this is a whole new level of trust issue.

What's the best avenue to take here? Please, any help is greatly appreciated!

It sounds as though your girlfriend was just having a moment to your self and the phone just happened to ring into the middle of it and she finished what she started once the phone call was over... therefore, I say let it go as it seems to be nothing more than a moment of self pleasure.

But IF you do feel the need to say some thing try telling her that you saw her self made porn on the security cam and then proceed to tell her how turned on you were by it.... see where the conversation leads.

I'm at a loss, she knew the camera was there so perhaps she wants you to ask about it.