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Aug 04, 2011, 05:19 PM
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I hace had a lot of dreams about my son. I hurt him in the dreams or i leave him abandon some where then i get exstream guilt and go searching for him hugging and kissing him and then i wake up feeling guilty even though its just a dream and i ahvent actually done anything.
When i was little i had the same dream alot. My mam would walk me up over a bridge in town and when we get to the bottom we she turns and leaves. She was waving from the top of the bridge and crying saying bye. I dnt no why i had that dream because my mam was a good mother
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Aug 05, 2011, 05:24 AM
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Danii24 how sad- I don't know what these dreams mean- perhaps abandonment or letting go of responsibility?
I hope you have better dreams in the future, and that some one else can give you more insight to them
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Aug 08, 2011, 11:51 AM
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Danii
The stuff I'm reading about now says it's as normal for us to imagine doing bad things as it is to imagine doing good things. The example given was of finding an abandoned baby bird. When we see it, we imagine wanting to hurt it just as much as we imagine wanting to protect it. The thing I read didn't say WHY we imagine hurting the bird, but it said we all do it, so I guess the thing to do is just to somehow become comfortable with that thought. It didn't say how you do that, either. I'm working on not suppressing these thoughts, while I'm also obviously not acting on them, either. That, and trying to figure out what they mean, what they're trying to tell me, what can be gained from them. HS
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Aug 09, 2011, 04:14 PM
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 i have evil dreams that make me very sad and upset  i know how tiring and depressing it is to live a second traumatiic live (when sleeping) Hang in there champ 
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Aug 09, 2011, 04:17 PM
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i tink its jus a guilt thing cos sum times i dnt feel like a good mother jus becos of my depression which is stupid but i tink its why i have that dream
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