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Old Feb 14, 2012, 07:34 AM
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I'm on a relationship and always had interest in older women. I'm 27 and my girlfriend is 55 (she looks around 40ish to be honest).
But I often dream of other women I find attractive (and have desired for), intimate things (like kissing, having sex or just caressing and sharing mutual feelings).
I love my girlfriend and I feel bad for having such dreams when I'm with her.

Am I bound to be unfaithful? Should I ever give up on marriage?

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Old Feb 16, 2012, 01:18 AM
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ahiru, I think your dreams are natural and I would not worry about it meaning you to be unfaithful. I was married and true blue always for years and year. I often dreamed of old boyfriends, but that's all they were, dreams. Not to worry in my opinion.
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 01:21 AM
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I'm agreeing with BJ here. Your dreams are pretty normal. As long as you don't run out and seek to make one of these dreams a reality, I would say you are just fine.
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 09:18 AM
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Dreams are about our own innards, not reality. It sounds like you are unconsciously worried you might stray but that is good to know, isn't hidden from you so can't jump out and surprise you now, you can deal with it out in the open.
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