[tpamrk]

To begin with, my girlfriend has always been a horse lover. And it only came up once or twice at the beginning of our relationship, but she told me she saw a picture of a woman having sex with a horse years ago and it really turned her on. Curious, I pulled up a similar picture on the internet to show her and she almost started dripping. We joke about it once in awhile and just laugh it off...but it has always intimidated me just a bit because I've always thought I have a below average size penis and I'm not sure if it's the size of the horse's penis or what that turns her on. Now, this morning she told me that she dreamed last night that she was masturbating a moose.
My self esteem has me worried that I'm not satisfying her enough but she assures me I am. Am I reading too much into her fantasy about horses, and her moose dream? Or does it have an underlying meaning?

[shipping]

Hello! Thanks for sharing your concern, and welcome to PCentral. As a woman, I think my advice is valid for this situation. I often fantasize about animals myself, and I am bi and I would never ever be dissatisfied with a man's penis size, nor is it penis size that makes an animal attractive. One possibility involves the fact that some women experience orgasm while riding a horse. The repetitive pressure against the labia and clitoris can really make some women orgasm. Many women have trouble achieving orgasm through penetrative sex only; the clitoris is key. If it turns out that this is the case, pay more attention to her clitoris such as through oral sex or hand and finger play. Make sure she comes. Next case scenario, some people in general find animal sex arousing because it reminds us that we are all animals. There is a slightly (at least) degrading aspect of being mounted by an indifferent male animal; not degrading in a bad sense, but in a FREEing sense; we can be free to let our animal instincts erupt and that is really hot. It could also be related to love; to innocence of childhood. For example, I read once about a woman who was incredibly turned on by dogs because when she was a little girl and squatting down to play in a dress her loving, loyal dog began to sniff and lick between her legs. She experienced orgasm for the first time that way. We all sometimes go back in our memories and experience pleasure, and added to the pleasure is our memory of innocence--when we were cared for and protected.

If I were you, I would try some things, but only you really know your girlfriend and how she might respond, OK? So don't sue me if this goes badly. Try, in no particular order: sniffing her body all over and end up sniffing between her legs and very tentatively and with curiosity begin to lick her there. Or, try mounting her from behind, reaching around to manipulate her clitoris with your hand. Another thing to try: whisper horse porn in her ear as you penetrate her. Whisper things like: "this stallion's going to spurt his load all over your body" and so on.

You are very kind and generous to want to know more about your girlfriend's passion. I'm sure, then, that you please her very much. It would be quite rare for a woman to have an issue with size. But many people get seriously turned on by animals for the reasons I've mentioned here and probably some that I don't even know about. So above all--don't worry. Try to incorporate her passion into your sex life with her. If you are feeling really brave, you might discuss this openly with her, too! That is how all good relationships progress. Good luck! Don't hesitate to write again if you need more advice. I am shipping and you may PM me if you want. Remember you really care about her pleasure or you wouldn't go to the trouble to join here and share your concerns. Go, guy!

[shipping]

I gave really good advice here, but apparently the guy never showed up again?

[student646]

This post made me laugh so hard. I don't think that your girlfriend's fetish has anything to do with your penis size.

Thank you for making my day.

[Smarter]

First of all a man should be confident. If he loses this feature - his woman starts turning around for new males