[Lotus2208]

Hi all,

I would really love some advice on what this recurring dream means. I apologise in advance that this may seem rambly but I want to give you guys as much info as possible!

So, there is a guy that I have liked for probably 8-10 months, I work in the music industry and he is a vocalist so we got to know each other via social networking sites and then via text. It has been slightly on and off with each of us having bf's/gf's during that time and not speaking as often as we had been at other times. However, we always seem to come back to chatting to each other often.

We decided to meet up for a drink about two weeks ago and finally did one week ago. We both agreed that we were nervous before and he was conscious of me liking him. It was fantastic when we did go for a drink, we had so much to chat about and there was a definite closeness there straight away.

I have been feeling a bit stifled by my friendship group at the moment so when he asked me to go on to his friends house with him for a few drinks I thought it was a great idea. And it was! I had so much fun with his friends and clicked with all of them straight away.

I then went back to his and that night we just cuddled and chatted, however when we woke up in the morning we slept together. I think this may have been due to the alcohol too it was great at the time was very sweet and I certainly felt a connection, afterwards he was waxing lyrical about how he felt so comfortable around me and didn't have to pretend (all good things I would guess)

However, since then we have spoken very very little.

NOW FOR THE DREAM!!!!!! And I have for the last I would say 5 days been having recurring dreams that we are being intimate, acting like a couple and generally laughing and having a great time. We are also usually with his friends and I am also having fun with them. He also makes some kind of sweet gesture in the dream, the one last night was setting a reminder on my phone saying "i love you" so that I got it when I was back at my house. In a couple of the dreams I have also dreamt about being pregnant and vomiting. I'm guessing the vomiting is my subconscious trying to give me a sign to get my feelings out?!

Anyway all help is greatly appreciated. Thank you SO much for taking the time to read through all of this!

Hope to hear from you soon

[WhiteClouds]

Hi,
The dream may be 2 things. #1 your subconscious would like a higher level relationship with him. Meaning in your subconscious you would like to have a substantial relationship with him that include his friends, his presence, his words of affection, and his child.
#2 You're afraid you may be pregnant.

No matter what, please be aware of the indications he is giving you. Meaning his distancing himself, less communication. Hope this helps some.

[archipelago]

It could be straight wish fulfillment, but it could also be more complicated depending on what else is going on. Yes, the dream seems to want to continue this particular relationship further than it seems to be able to go, but it also shows signs that you may be wanting a change in general. The fact that you are with his friends and your center has shifted to something new may be a longing you have that is more than just about one relationship. Just a guess. I would need to know more.

[Thunder Bow]

Pregent means new life in you. Vomiting means getting rid of old nasty feelings and ways of behaveing.