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Old Feb 10, 2013, 11:42 AM
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You know I have never wondered about my dreams before, but I had a horrible one about my Fiance cheating on me, and i figured i would put it up and see what people say...

So i am out in afghanistan, and the dream was about my fiance and i skypeing. Her video wasnt working, and in the middle of the conversation her video came on, and their was a man standing next to our bed putting his shirt on, then the video shut off again. I asked her who it was and she proceded to say "who is who". So we continued our conversation and not even a min later her video feed came back on, and he was standing next to her. A man on the shorter side, wearing a white tank top, wearing a snap back hat, Long hair, beard, pretty buff, and with tattoos. Now the weird thing is, is that his apperiance resembeled mine. Then my fiance finally proceded to tell me that she had been cheating on me since 3 days after i left. My heart was broken and it was the worst feeling i have ever had in my life.. I have been divorced before, and have a daughter. But this feeling outmatched any i have had in the past.

That is pretty much all of the dream. My mom appeired in the dream and proceeded to ask me if i was ok, and i just got more details form my fiance about the affair. But thats all.

Please tell me what are your thoughts. I am very curious to know.
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Old Feb 12, 2013, 06:09 AM
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I had a dream where I was cheating on my boyfriend but I know I would never do that. I knew if it meant something it had nothing to do with the act so I looked up what this could mean and I found a Dream Dictionary. It says:

"To dream that you commit adultery or have an affair signifies your sexual urges and desires that are longing to be expressed. Alternatively, it indicates self-betrayal of your subconscious. You may find yourself entangled in a situation that is not in your best interest, perhaps even illegal.

To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, highlights your insecurities and your fears of being abandoned. You feel that you are being taken for granted. You are lacking attention in the relationship or that he or she is being less affectionate. Alternatively, you feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others."
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Old Feb 13, 2013, 02:25 AM
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Originally Posted by ShaunaTheShy View Post
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, highlights your insecurities and your fears of being abandoned. You feel that you are being taken for granted. You are lacking attention in the relationship or that he or she is being less affectionate. Alternatively, you feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others."

Wow that is very helpfull.. Thank you very much. That is almost exactly how i feel... The entire thing. It makes so much sence that you would dream about something because of your insecurities. Thank you again.
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