[Perna]

I don't understand the entire piece of dream I remember but there was one section where I was on the phone, someone I thought of as my sister in the room with me, we had been discussing our childhood in that room when our father called only he was not my father, nor was she my sister and the relationship when I answered the phone went from her being equal to me to her seeming much younger and me being much more responsible and the father, or man on the phone's wife was not around. (Perhaps you see why I don't understand :-)

The man on the phone is checking in, seeing how we are as giving his schedule and asking my okay on a few things, one of which is, tomorrow he wants to visit an ex-con to have a phantom operation, what is actually called Psychic surgery - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia but in the dream was called a phantom operation; I think it had to do with his intestines/he had a stomach area problem (not heart). I did not care so told him "fine" but I was struck by the conflict in me; I wanted to convince him he was wasting his money and it was dangerous (if he were actually ill and did not get whatever cared for, he could die and then those who depended on him would be without his support) and stupid but I also knew he would not listen no matter what I said and there was no point in trying to get through to him.

[Thunder Bow]

Lack of connection in this dream and judgement. Avoiding gut level feelings. Conflict results. Examine what was said in your family while growing up, and how those imprints affect your thinking today.