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Old Jan 27, 2014, 11:31 PM
MistressoftheDark13 MistressoftheDark13 is offline
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I have realized after lying down earlier this evening. In the dream I was in bed with my fiance and another man. I was lying there kissing my fiance while the other man was, well lets just say down below. I look down and the man looks up and me. I immediately shot up out of a dead sleep. This other man was my father...... I am horrified over this dream. I don't know what it means and it is really freaking me out. I don't know if it has to do with the "daddy issues" I have, or the fact I'm getting married in April, etc. I have abandonment and trust issues because of my father but we have a decent relationship, we don't really ever argue, and we get along pretty well. I just feel completely weirded out by this dream and need some meaning to what is symbolizes.

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Old Jan 28, 2014, 12:05 PM
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The marrage bed has 4 people in it. That is why you had the dream. The husband and wife, and their mother and father. This is quite normal. Nothing wrong here. A good insight kind of dream.
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Old Jan 28, 2014, 12:15 PM
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I've heard that sexual dreams often refer to a power struggle in the waking life; maybe you feel like you can't get over your issues with your father and even though your main focus is on your new life with your partner, your father is always beneath the metaphorical covers. I very much agree with Thunder Bow, and wouldn't get too creeped out by this, though I figure it's normal.
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Old Jan 29, 2014, 07:06 PM
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This dream seriously disturbs me, well because of the content of it. But one thing I am curious about is my fiance and my father are very similar in personality. I read a dream interpretation of a similar situation that said that it could be a sign that I want to be emotionally intimate with my boyfriend but I'm holding back because he reminds me of my father and the fact I've never really been able to trust my father because of feeling abandoned by him. IDK how true that interpretation is, kind of makes since. All I know is it really freaked me out.
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Old Jan 30, 2014, 01:26 PM
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The first man in your life is your Father. This is why it happened.
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