[xena235]

It was set in a field that had stalls at nighttime. I was walking down it, with my sister a few metres behind. My parents were well behind us but I never looked at them. I felt strong arms around me suddenly, some guy my age (18), though I didn’t glance at his face. I was excited at being so close to a male stranger.

I didn’t want my sister to see, however, so I hurried down the stalls. He suddenly ran super-fast with me and round the corner. We stopped in a quiet place. I really wanted to get physical with him (though I can’t remember if I wanted French kissing or sex). He still had his hands wrapped round me. He lay down holding me with my back on him.

Holding me tightly, he twisted so he was on top and I was pinned to the grass. He pulled down my trousers and underwear. I was excited and very nervous. For some reason I was wearing a used period pad. He put his penis near me, but then realised I was a virgin (which I am) and was about to finger me. My nerves took over and I told him no. He didn’t want too, but finally he agreed and got off me. I quickly searched to see if my sister had seen me, embarrassed she might have, but I couldn’t see her. I hurriedly pulled my pants and trousers back on.

I rushed back to the stalls and found my sister. She didn’t see the guy with me and said she was sorry it didn’t work out with him (as in getting a boyfriend, not the sex part).

[Thunder Bow]

Dream about the fear of being shamed and rejected by family, if you have sex with him. The stalls show putting your feelings in their place. You working through your fears and are more excited and comfortable about having sex with a man for the first time.

[Perna]

You might have several dreams like this (I did) and they might be frustrating. I figured out though that you cannot have an experience in a dream that you have never experienced in real life as you only know "about" it, have never really experienced it before. Doesn't matter if you have masturbated or not, etc. the actual experience of sex needs to have happened before you can dream about.

[Tristan H.]

Originally Posted by Perna

You might have several dreams like this (I did) and they might be frustrating. I figured out though that you cannot have an experience in a dream that you have never experienced in real life as you only know "about" it, have never really experienced it before. Doesn't matter if you have masturbated or not, etc. the actual experience of sex needs to have happened before you can dream about.

That's a load of bollocks. I have dreamed of having sex plenty of times (at least since the age of 16, when I even wrote a blog post about it). The dreams have ranged from the pornographic to the most intimate and delicate. And no, I have not had sex. But I do have an imagination. If you have an imagination (which we all do, unless you have some specific retardation) then you are also capable of experiencing within a dream something that you have never done in waking life.
I have dreamt of firing a gun, shooting bows and arrows, kissing a girl, flying, etc. many many years before any of those things really happened to me (FYI I have never flown an aircraft of my own accord to this day).

Now, there is another way to look at your post: yes it's true, we can't experience in dreams things we haven't experienced for real before, but that point it mostly academic because we have all, for the most part, seen action movies, read about this or that, viewed pornography, etc. and so we are able to relive them in dreams just as we experienced them vicariously through the TV or silver screen.

[Marshellette]

Originally Posted by Tristan H.

That's a load of bollocks. I have dreamed of having sex plenty of times (at least since the age of 16, when I even wrote a blog post about it). The dreams have ranged from the pornographic to the most intimate and delicate. And no, I have not had sex. But I do have an imagination. If you have an imagination (which we all do, unless you have some specific retardation) then you are also capable of experiencing within a dream something that you have never done in waking life.
I have dreamt of firing a gun, shooting bows and arrows, kissing a girl, flying, etc. many many years before any of those things really happened to me (FYI I have never flown an aircraft of my own accord to this day).

Now, there is another way to look at your post: yes it's true, we can't experience in dreams things we haven't experienced for real before, but that point it mostly academic because we have all, for the most part, seen action movies, read about this or that, viewed pornography, etc. and so we are able to relive them in dreams just as we experienced them vicariously through the TV or silver screen.

Like the Tropic of Cancer, sex is not bad or good, it just is.