[whitelighter]

This dream didn't have any highly explicit content but I feel I should caution it has some adult themes. I didn't know where else to post it. I was careful how I worded it.

I'm a single male in my early 40's. I don't define myself as being of a certain persuasion, but have some issues in that area. I do know that I'm very lonely and have few friends.

The dream involved a fb friend who I went to high school with - let's say Jason(not his real name). I really didn’t know him at all – I just vaguely remembered his name & face – but I befriended him on fb because I knew his wife pretty well. He was a grade ahead of me; probably just few months older.

I guess he’s pretty nice-looking, but not extraordinarily so. In the dream, for whatever reason, he and I both happened to be with this group of younger adults in a motel room. One of the women there said she'd do intimate acts with any man there. Eventually, Jason went over and accepted.

Although I guess I felt a little aroused, I feel it's important point to clarify that I didn't hope this meant he felt a certain way about me or that he swung both ways - in fact hoped that he hadn’t, even partially. done this on account of me. I hoped, rather, that I could perhaps feel a bit honored that he trusted me, but that he’d done it entirely for the act itself, not to be an exhibitionist.

It’s important to mention he teaches sixth grade now at our old school, and that he & his wife have 3 kids, and he seems very much a family guy, not the kind of guy one would expect to be unfaithful to his wife.

Any thoughts on what this might mean?

[CANDC]

I am not really able to interpret other's dreams. What they mean to a person is possibly a little of expressing our inner self or just working out the events of the day.

There is more on Psych Central about understanding dreams.
Psych Central - Search results for Understanding our dreams

[Thunder Bow]

You be seeing Jason as a part of you, yourself.

[Astreia]

Our social media relationships feel so real! and yet they can be overwhelming at times, especially when you have a lot of online friends that you socialize with. And sometimes I, myself, feel like I am on display in social media like Facebook... it doesn't have to have a hidden meaning. It could just mean that the social media is triggering anxiety or that you feel a little too "out there" at times.