[Keyslost]

I had a dream with two girls who were very into me but with a catch, they were sexually dominant. As in they wanted to burn and tear my skin. In the dream and reality this made me very uncomfortable. What is my subconscious trying to achieve with this? More recently I had a dream with different girls who were very nice and just wanted what I consider a normal relationship. Of course in the dream as well as in reality there can only be one. Better choose wisely (I believe this aspect of these types of dreams remind me that I must choose carefully who I spend my life with as past relationships have been 1 sided)

[Thunder Bow]

Dreams can always mirror situations in real life.

[MusicMike]

When you say it made you uncomfortable in real life, do you mean after you awoke? Or have you had a relationship with a sexually dominant girl before?

Do you recall where on your body they wanted to burn and tear?

The dream could be speaking of the inner feminine, those characteristics of your personality that you associate with girls. It appears the inner feminine has a dual aspect; on the one hand wanting to dominate and hurt you (wanting to do something to your skin might refer to wanting to appear on your surface, the surface you present to the world) and on the other hand wanting to help you and integrate with your ego (conscious personality) in a healthy way.

Your dream self, I believe, is an objective reporter of facts. It's saying, this is what's going on in your unconscious. I further believe that it means to help you by making you aware of this. For instance, being aware gives you a chance to consciously notice during the day when some aspect of the inner feminine is trying to show itself.

Mike

[Keyslost]

Thunder - yeah I was thinking maybe that was it. From previous times, just my body warning me: you better pick someone decent. Though no one ever hurt me physically ex's can be pretty mean sometimes.

Mike - I would have never seen it that way, very interesting. After I awoke I hope to never have something like that IRL. Man I wish I could figure out what that would be. I can only guess that it's my interaction with people. It tends to be of feminine stereotype characteristic (stating things as questions and upward inflection of voice). Those really bother me but maybe my body is saying I am who I am.

Thx you 2!

[MusicMike]

That's already a good observation you made about characteristics of the feminine in your speech. Your relationship with this aspect of yourself -- whether you don't like, are averse to it, have a neutral relationship with it, embrace it -- are the sort of details that show up in dreams. It could be that this characteristic is something your psyche wants you to grow out of, or on the other hand it could be something your psyche wants you to grow into to and accept and embrace. Or maybe you feel differently about it at different times.

Keep paying attention to your dreams and maybe keep a diary or journal where you write down your feelings about the events of the day. I believe that your dream self is there to help you sort it out and become a whole, integrated person.

[Thought+Broad.Girl]

lol..

I know i am not supposed to say this.. ((but i like to bite)) more of a nibble really LOL. sorry. anyway i think this means you need a balanced relationship with someone who is independent but also caring and who loves you enough not to hurt you (but still knows how to have some fun) the end