Dead dad, dead boss, but dream they are alive

orangyred · Dec 18, 2015 at 10:14 AM

So, this is really weird for me. My dad has been dead 21 years and last night was the first time that I've ever dreamt that he was still alive and had just been hiding.

It's hard to explain just how weird it was for me.

I had a boss die nearly five years back who I have dreamt about often really being alive and was just "away" or "hiding", but never my dad.

I don't know what information is needed, but I am curious to know why I've had such dreams. Is this an indication of unresolved issues? I realize this isn't an exact science of any sort, but I'm curious to know people's thoughts.

IrisBloom · Dec 18, 2015 at 12:11 PM

I have dreams about a deceased brother who has been gone 30 years. I dream about him every couple of months. The dreams are similar, but can vary a little. I have not figured out why I dream about him like this. I don't find the dreams disturbing at all. I also dream about other people I've known who have passed. I do not believe in the dead visiting us. I think it's just our brains dredging up old memories plus making an interesting story line.

avlady · Dec 19, 2015 at 07:20 AM

ialso dream of dead people every night. I'm 54 yrs old, and have seen slot of people pass, so i know alot of them. sometimes they are good dreams and sometimes they are nightmares. i really don't know why either.

winter4me · Dec 19, 2015 at 08:20 AM

For years, when someone I knew would die, I would inevitably have a dream soon after that I saw them somewhere, they were alive, that I had been mistaken about their death.

Oddly, this did not happen when my brother, father, and mother died.
But, they are in and out of dreams quite alive...

Thunder Bow · Dec 19, 2015 at 02:00 PM

These people can mirror some part of ourselves. See what you had in common with them.

waterknob1234 · Dec 19, 2015 at 03:45 PM

I remember once or twice I had a dream about my parents after they died. In the dream it was like they were still alive and still actively involved in things.

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avlady Wise Elder Community Liaison Member Since Jan 2013 Location: angola ny Posts: 9,794 (SuperPoster!) 11 28.8k hugs given	Dec 19, 2015 at 07:20 AM #3 ialso dream of dead people every night. I'm 54 yrs old, and have seen slot of people pass, so i know alot of them. sometimes they are good dreams and sometimes they are nightmares. i really don't know why either.
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Thunder Bow Elder Member Since Sep 2012 Location: Arizona Posts: 5,630 12 3 hugs given	Dec 19, 2015 at 02:00 PM #5 These people can mirror some part of ourselves. See what you had in common with them.
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waterknob1234 Grand Poohbah Member Since Feb 2014 Location: in school Posts: 1,773 10 1,308 hugs given	Dec 19, 2015 at 03:45 PM #6 I remember once or twice I had a dream about my parents after they died. In the dream it was like they were still alive and still actively involved in things.
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