[pinkvilla]

This forum has helped me with a lot of questions and I want to thank all of you.

I have a question which I hope someone can help me with.

I was in therapy for depression and was able to successfully let go of my ex.I even had a dream of him dead. But the sadness continued. So to get rid of the lingering sadness,I started reading about abandonment pain from childhood and it made a lot of sense.Suddenly yesterday,I had a dream of my ex with another woman and child.

I'd like to know what this means.Should I stop reading about abandonment ?? Also is there a way to get rid of my lingering sadness?? I miss him a lot.

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[TishaBuv]

It's very understandable how your mind is wondering what may happen to him, pondering the possibilities... Like he moved on and had another family while you are still hurting for him.

[Thunder Bow]

In your dreams the "Ex" may represent a part of yourself that died. In the 2nd. dream is you starting over with a new life. Sadness is associated with letting go of old ways of self. This often occurs through Therapy.