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Old Dec 10, 2016, 09:28 PM
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I've had a few dreams over the past couple years involving a man I have never met. He is tall with black hair and dark eyes. The two most memorable dreams in which I've seen him were the first and the most recent.

In the first dream, I met him somewhere (a large building completely made of wood, but very modern) and we had a very long and detailed conversation. Sadly, once I woke up I only remembered the end of it, though I knew that the entire conversation was very important. At the end of our talk he said " I love you... but that won't stop me." I had the sense that he was planning something dangerous, but I have no idea what.

In the most recent dream, from two nights ago, he and I met somewhere again. This time it was a forest, and there was some kind of event taking place, there were other people there but I didn't see them very closely. In this dream he didn't say anything to me, but kissed me and left. Somehow I knew I couldn't be with him, and it caused such a strong feeling of love and agony that it stayed with me when I woke up.

I don't normally remember my dreams, but I always remember the ones with him in them very vividly and I have no idea why. I've never met anyone who even remotely reminds me of him, and I have no desire to find a new love interest because I'm married.

I'm interested to see if anyone has any thoughts on this...
Thanks for this!
Takeshi

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Old Dec 11, 2016, 06:07 AM
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I've had a few dreams over the past couple years involving a man I have never met. He is tall with black hair and dark eyes. The two most memorable dreams in which I've seen him were the first and the most recent.

In the first dream, I met him somewhere (a large building completely made of wood, but very modern) and we had a very long and detailed conversation. Sadly, once I woke up I only remembered the end of it, though I knew that the entire conversation was very important. At the end of our talk he said " I love you... but that won't stop me." I had the sense that he was planning something dangerous, but I have no idea what.

In the most recent dream, from two nights ago, he and I met somewhere again. This time it was a forest, and there was some kind of event taking place, there were other people there but I didn't see them very closely. In this dream he didn't say anything to me, but kissed me and left. Somehow I knew I couldn't be with him, and it caused such a strong feeling of love and agony that it stayed with me when I woke up.

I don't normally remember my dreams, but I always remember the ones with him in them very vividly and I have no idea why. I've never met anyone who even remotely reminds me of him, and I have no desire to find a new love interest because I'm married.

I'm interested to see if anyone has any thoughts on this...
Hi,
Dreams are created by the subconscious to respond to, and remedy a problem during sleep. Some dreams are dreamt simply as diversion or entertainment.
You maybe happily married, but there is aways a stream of thoughts flowing throug the unconscious mind during sleep. many negative thoughts may intrude and your subconscious replies with its own created thoughts that may or may not be based on thouts and ideas that you had during waking.
The first dream was simply a natural creation of your subconscious of what you would imagine to be an ideal soulmate for you.

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" I love you... but that won't stop me."
The above quote from your dream was the actual waking element in the dream that got your brain worrking. The phrase has a concealed riddle that compels you ask what? or why?
The subconscious is a mysterious entity but it always creates dreams that are highly logical and alwas do the task they were created to do.
In the second dream, the stolen kiss created the emotion that that woke you up and lingered for some time after waking. Emotions of all sorts are strong waking elements and often set the mood for the day.
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Old Dec 11, 2016, 12:16 PM
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Old Dec 21, 2016, 11:22 PM
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Idk much of dream interpretation, but I read this like a story. (a compelling one at that!!!)

Idk if this amounts to anything, but it sounds like this handsome stranger is attached to you in some way in the dream, not reality. That distinction is important to separate so I can explain later what I think is what going on in your reality. In your dream I believe he is making a daring and maybe impactful act which will have a significant change on not only you but for a lot of people, (the faceless people). And although he loves you and cares about you, he is determined to do this action.

My opinion is that there is change in your life that is going to happen beyond your control executed by a love one or someone you're close to. I sense you may not have exactly confided your strong disposition or unsettled feelings against it. Maybe you're unaware of how strongly you felt against it happening. (Anyways, that's why I feel he appeared as a mysterious compelling lover in a dream, because of your concealed feelings?) I could be way off, but judging by the social interaction, I don't think it's anything acting on you that is inanimate being reflected in the dream, I definitely believe it's some feelings of social interactions being mimed or and represented in your subconscious. But again, I have no idea what I'm talking about.
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