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Default Apr 16, 2017 at 12:57 AM
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Hi there

A bit of info prior to the dream:

I am currently studying for my degree at university, and in my first year I met this girl who is in my class. I fell in love with her after a few weeks of meeting her. For anonymity, I shall call her Jenny. Now, I informed Jenny that I was interested in her, but she rejected me a week later stating that 'she had a boyfriend'. I said that I accept that even though I was heartbroken inside (I was quite tearful and upset for a short while). We didn't talk very much from the start and still don't talk very much because I think she is very shy and introverted, whereas I am quite outspoken and extroverted.
Times have moved on since then and I have kept my feelings for her hidden. We are both now going onto our final year soon. We talk a bit to each other now, but only because I think that she is used to me and knows me a bit better. I still have the same feelings for her and would like to be with her. However, from what I have experienced, she is quite timid when talking to people, she doesn't speak until spoken to etc. She is also like this with the girls in the class who she is supposedly friends with. The reason I know is because I am also friends with them and in conversation, they have told me this.

Now, onto the dream.

This dream begins with Jenny being in a relationship with another guy (his identity is not revealed in this dream and is nameless). In the dream Jenny reveals to me that she does not love the guy who she is currently with. While in university, after one of the lectures, she reveals to me that she is in love with me and I reject her saying that I am not interested in her, and she runs away crying and sobbing deeply. I feel really bad afterwards because I am in love with her and do care for her a lot. So I chase after her outside the university and down the street, I catch up to her, stop her and admit to her that I feel exactly the same way that she does about me. I wipe away her tears and we embrace. So, then she dumps her current boyfriend and we get together. The next thing I know, she becomes pregnant with my child and we can't bear to be outside of arms length of each other, we had those sort of deep feelings for each other.

So, Jenny's ex-boyfriend comes back into the picture saying that he does not want Jenny to leave her, and attempts to pull her away from me. In doing so, Jenny resists and slaps him around the face. He then pulls out a gun and threatens to shoot the both of us if she will not return to him. So me and Jenny both run away and hide. He chases us through a few meadows and fields, but we get away and lose him.

Afterwards, Me and Jenny build our own home and make a nice place for our baby to be born while at the same time becoming attached by the hip (completely inseparable) than ever before. The dream ends quite suddenly there with me wondering what does this mean for me because these feelings that I have for her have resurfaced and are a bit stronger than before.


So , what do you think of this dream?
I am so confused about this.
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Default Apr 16, 2017 at 03:13 PM
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This is a dream about yourself and the connection you made with yourself. The love you have for her also mirrors the love you have for yourself. In this dream you were merging with yourself.

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Default Apr 16, 2017 at 04:44 PM
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This is a dream about yourself and the connection you made with yourself. The love you have for her also mirrors the love you have for yourself. In this dream you were merging with yourself.

Interesting

Can you elaborate on that a bit more please?

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Default Apr 17, 2017 at 11:25 AM
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Bring attached to her by the hip, indicates a merging. Dreams are about feelings, and about self. In the dream, Jenny represents a part of yourself. The new child is a new beginning for you. The old boy friend represents your doubts of this connection. The new home is where you are now, a new start. This is a dream of healing.

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Default Apr 17, 2017 at 07:23 PM
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Bring attached to her by the hip, indicates a merging. Dreams are about feelings, and about self. In the dream, Jenny represents a part of yourself. The new child is a new beginning for you. The old boy friend represents your doubts of this connection. The new home is where you are now, a new start. This is a dream of healing.
Wow!! I had no idea, thanks for explaining
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