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Old Apr 25, 2017, 09:47 PM
OrderOfTeWhiteLotus OrderOfTeWhiteLotus is offline
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Hello, I am a 19 y/o College male student (turning 20). Last night, I had a dream that I was in a relationship with an acquaintance. This acquaintance is a friend of one of my friend's. To make things more easier, let's call her "Bella". "Bella" is a real-life person and we have never met or talked in person (real life). I only saw her photo from social media. Anyways, in this dream, we were in a relationship.There was three events that took place. Her physical appearance was: straight-black short-hair (shoulder length), black eyes, cute cheeks, round-facial structure, and slim. The first event was in a classroom setting. It was a nice bright sunny day outside. Bella and I were in that classroom, and I guess she was looking at me. I noticed that she was interested in me, and in that exact same moment, we were now in a relationship (no conversations, small talk, etc.). After this event, another event appeared. This event took place in a library setting. There was about 12 of my friends there, including my friend who knows Bella. They were all gathered. Some were sitting and some were standing. They were watching two of my friends going against each other on a card game. I decided to join them and after a while, I told them a secret. That secret was that I was in a relationship with Bella. My friend who knew Bella, was surprised and then started cheering me on. Soon after that, the rest of my friends started cheering me on, too. Then everything went black. As for the last and final event, it took place during the night (maybe around 8-10PM), in an outside open-field area. I was with Bella (I'm guessing earlier that day, we were on a date). We were sitting on a huge tree branch that was elevated off the ground (around 2-3ft). During that time, Bella and I were completely silent. It was silent and awkward because we don't know each other. But during this time, I knew I liked Bella. I tried my hardest to come up with questions to ask her, but I was struggling very hard to come up with the questions. The only question I can remember asking her, was "What is your favorite color?". She replied that blue, orange, and white/black was her favorite color. I replied back that those were my favorite colors, too (it really is). After this conversation, Bella had to go home. We kissed and then I watched her depart for her house, while standing on the tree branch. Her house was actually close-by (maybe a house-distance away from the tree). She knocked on her house, but no one answered. So I saw her struggle her way back to the backyard and she left from there. While I was watching her, I was laughing at her struggle because it was funny.

And that was when I woke up in real life. In that dream, I noticed that there were many things that I struggled with. I didn't mention it in the dream but I was struggling to converse with her through texts and in person in the three events. I would forget to text her "good night" and "good morning". I would be doing my own stuff and forgot to give her the attention. Even on that last event, I forgot to text her "good night" until it was very late (maybe 2AM). In person, we rarely converse because we were strangers (dream).

In all, I would like to here the community's opinions and feedback about this dream.
I kinda dug a little deeper into this dream to find a meaning to it, and I did noticed something. That something, is that I am not ready for a relationship. I noticed that in this dream, I was struggling to text and converse with her and I would forget to give her attention, which led me to that conclusion.
Overall, thank you for taking the time to read my dream.

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Old Apr 26, 2017, 01:54 PM
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You interpretated your dream correctly. Having a relationship does involve going out on a limb.
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