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Nov 07, 2005, 01:55 PM
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The day after i cut my wrist, my mom sent me to my grandmothers. Does she hate me? Cause she didnt even try to help.
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Nov 07, 2005, 01:57 PM
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Sounds to me like an act of frustration!
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Nov 07, 2005, 02:31 PM
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I'll second what Dottie said. Sounds like she just doesn't know what to do.
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Nov 08, 2005, 03:50 AM
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Hi Dark Angel,
I agree with the others. The events that we can understand and share here at PC are often too frightening for other people. Maybe your Mum was just scared and upset and wasn't able to take on board the depth of your struggle. If she is scared, it might be best for you to draw as much comfort and strength as you can from those who can help, and try not to focus too much on negative thoughts about your Mum (I know it's not easy). Also your Mum might be feeling responsible for what has happened to you, and there will be all sorts of guilt and denial going on there. Any chance of getting some family therapy from a professional? Good thoughts, M |
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Nov 08, 2005, 07:18 PM
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Why is this in self esteem forum?
ok.. I think maybe your mom DOES love you... because she did SOMETHING... we can't know why she decided on what she did, but if she didn't care, she wouldn't have done anything! I'm sorry you are hurting so! 
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Nov 08, 2005, 10:02 PM
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it would be a real blow to my self-esteem, if i cut and my mother sent me away. i'd feel lower than a snake's belly.
i'm sorry that your mother doesn't seem to understand what you need right now. please keep posting and we'll try and help and support you. xoxoxo pat |
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Nov 09, 2005, 02:59 AM
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I dunno but maybe mom is messed up or thinks she is and thinks maybe grandma will do a better job of it at keeping you safe..It MAY be the best thing she knows to do.
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Nov 20, 2005, 11:14 PM
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a lot of people do NOT understand self mutilation and so out of frustration they remain in denial and ignore it or pass it on to some one else........you are not alone....my mom is the same way........although i am "recovering"
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