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Old Aug 18, 2015, 06:31 AM
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I always put myself second or last. I'm the most passive person you will ever meet! I'm so tired of being walked all over. I don't say "welcome" I don't know why everyone thinks I do. No wait, it's the way I am...I let it happen.

I feel done and ready to be the ***** I need to be. I'm not going to put up with it anymore. I'm going to tell it like it is, no hold backs. I'm done hiding, done trying to lay in the floor to get walked on. I deserve more than that, my kids deserve more than that. Time to teach my kids that they have to stand up for themselves!

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Old Aug 21, 2015, 04:45 PM
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Self care and holding ourselves in a balanced view of ourselves are important. Rather than portray it as a battle against others, it can also be seen as a battle within ourselves. Here is an article that defines some of the issues of that inner battle.

Building Self-Esteem | Psych Central
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Old Aug 21, 2015, 06:40 PM
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sesiley,
don't make yourself available to your abusers . get yourself off the floor and telling them no I am not a doormat im a human being with feelings . be assertive sesiley . you need to believe in yourself hun .assert yourself you are strong . you will not take it anymore!!!!!
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Old Aug 21, 2015, 09:02 PM
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Thanks guys...love you

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