[Sunflower123]

I’m trying really hard to understand that conflict in relationships happens. That’s life. It doesn’t necessarily follow that there is a terrible flaw(s) in my personality or that there is something wrong with my communication style or for that matter that all conflict is somehow my fault. I’m working on being more compassionate there.

Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967

I’m trying really hard to understand that conflict in relationships happens. That’s life. It doesn’t necessarily follow that there is a terrible flaw(s) in my personality or that there is something wrong with my communication style or for that matter that all conflict is somehow my fault. I’m working on being more compassionate there.

I really like that you had this realization, Jennifer. Conflict in relationships does happen, and I have forgotten this sometimes, too.

I myself am learning that I have specific needs and feelings that are different from others, sometimes. And it doesn't mean there's something wrong with me. Or you. Or anyone who may feel a certain way in a friendship or relationship.