i dont belong

i dont really belong anywhere

i never have belonged

nobody really wants me around

the day will come when i get rejected on here as well, cause its the way things are

I'm sorry that people are so unkind to you. You deserve better. You deserve to be appreciated and treasured.

You belong here, willowtigger. You have friends here who care. Who knows, there might be someone at some point who writes something unkind, but that's not too likely. Okay?

That may have been the case - true. But what about this site?



I told you before, and I tell you again: I am glad to have met you, so I want you around!



Rejection is part of the process, and can almost certainly not be avoided. Question is, what are you gonna do about it? Stick your head into the sand? Nah ... you are willowtigger, mom to two cats!

I am glad everytime we get to communicate, and I am sure other people here (chatters, and forums) feel the same!

Kindest,
rewin

I don't belong anywhere either I have different disabilities and conditions but never fit in the communities for any of them completely.


Deaf people realise I'm not like them so I learn I have auditory processing issues and autism so learn about autism but I'm not exactly like them either


I think I may have another mental illness on top of the autism or mixed in with but I don't know what it is.


Then there's the physical issues.. and I'm not like most older adults with mobility issues either cos they're just normal people and once they learn have no kids, never had, no partner...don't like phone calls cos can't cope as the expectation to speak renders me mute. I get ignored, people think I'm weird if I try and join in no-one posts after so I give up.

Even on a group with others with selective mutism with several others who are autistic I don't feel the same as them.


I feel like I only exist...just here for the dog cos I promised him a home for life and no-one else cares whether I exist or not.

I don't know if its just the mood swings from the peri (menopause) cos they are severe and am like a different person sometimes...some days I don't even know who I am!

Willowtigger belongs here

(good post below)

I'm sorry I didn't know about this thread until now. You know how I feel, @willowtigger. @InkyTinks, I wish I could get my guardian Angel to find where you are & give you a big hug that you could feel, & fill your heart with happiness, & the knowing that you are loved.

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Willow Tiger I know how you feel. I too am an odd duck. Just live your life and try not let those negative feelings win.

(((((((((((((((((willowtigger))))))))))))))
a wise flower once told me , that i had a place here and that was 15 years ago.
there is a place here for any oddity or odd ball.......... even me

I am just starting to feel like i have found my tribe here. A lot of it is that i KNOW i did not sound like myself when i first started posting here. It took a long time to find and start speaking in my own true voice. And to dare to.

Good post