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My self esteem is in the toilet. If I don't find someone to appreciate my love then I don't feel life is worth living anymore. I should have left years ago but was too afraid to be alone. Even though her track record is of leaving me high and dry a few times in my life. Our relationship is a sickness. It's an addiction. There's so many women out there who say they can't find a good man , well I'm a good man yet I can't find anyone to love. Where are you all ? Why can't I get off of this ferris wheel of life that goes nowhere ?
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Something is keeping you stuck. Do you have a therapist to help you look deep within?
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Yes. There's nothing wrong with being a good person but obviously the relationship you're in is having adverse effects on your self esteem = mental health. So, without knowing much about your circumstances, it seems as if this relationship may need to come to an end. And from there, perhaps a new start will take place.🙏
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I DO need to look deep within and face myself.... __________________ Trying to Live in the Moment |
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