How can I deal with all this abuse?

<font color="purple"> </font> I have been going through all kinds of abuse, physical and sexual. Physical from both parents and sexual from 2 of my best guy friends. I have no idea who to talk to about this to.... Im so lost and confused about it all...

so talk to us....

if you don't feel comfortable posting on the forums, feel free to pm me.

I am on and off because I have little ones to tend to but will get back to you as soon as I can.

Take care of yourself
And don't be afraid to share (even the confusion part) there are a bunch of great people here who are willing to help. You are not alone.

Take care,
Kimberly.

Goodness, you need some support and you will get it here. please post again and, as KTP suggested, feel free to PM us. I'm so sorry that your'e going through this. Pat

Welcome TPDI,

I am sorry to hear of all this abuse you've been going through.

A couple quick questions: <ul type="square">[*] are you living away from your parents now?[*]are you currently in therapy? ----you said that you do not know who to talk with regarding these abuse issues so I am guessing you are not yet in therapy but please do let us know[*]are you currently living in an abusive relationship?[*]are you currently in school? or have you graduated (long ago?) and are now a part of the working world?[/list]I ask these questions hoping your answers will let us know a bit more in how to assist you in finding different ways of getting help for this.

You are not alone in this. Being confused about such things is very common. I am glad you found your way here. Take care and thank you for posting this about yourself. Reaching out is the first step in finding your healing path. Good job!

I still live with my mom, yes, my parents are divorced, im a freshman in highschool, im 16 years old, and yes i am in an abusive relationship, kinda, i am not in therapy bc i refuse to go, and i do not have a job....

For everyone else and you too of course..... Both my parents abuse me, physically, my moms most recent one was sunday, March 12th, my dads was over a month ago. I was raped twice by two of my friends. Chris was November 23rd, 2003, and cody was the last weekend of january of this year. I have a tendancy to cut when i am upset and i really wish to stop but the more stuff that happens to me, the more i do it. My parents dont want me so i have no where else to go. My fiance treats me like an angel, except for one time he threw me against the wall bc we had a huge fight and i was scared and so was he bc the look i gave him wasnt a good one. I just dont know what else to do I mean i have no one except for Adam and my big sister.... me and adam will be leavin for good next year, but thats next year. I also turn to drugs and alcohol to help make the thoughts go away but i found out that it just makes it worse. I just really dont know what to do anymore.....

Amy