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Dec 31, 2009, 05:01 AM
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after what happened to me when i was younger i did not see the person after i left my school. but recently he has come back into my life and seems to want to carry on. i am scared of what he will do as it seems i don have any power against him, he seems to control what i do.to everyone i am this strong person but i feel so weak and scared.
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Dec 31, 2009, 11:12 AM
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You do not have to let him into your life. You do have power. You just need to embrace it. You have the right to protect yourself and you are capable of protecting yourself. Please keep us posted!
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Dec 31, 2009, 03:29 PM
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Have you seen your therapist or a therapist about this? Is the SI still ongoing? I think you realize you need help. Do what you have to to get it.
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Jan 02, 2010, 04:02 PM
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i'm so sorry
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Jan 02, 2010, 05:04 PM
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How are you doing, lonely and scared?
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#6
Jan 03, 2010, 05:56 AM
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finding it a bit hard to et through the days atm.
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Jan 03, 2010, 10:00 AM
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lonely and scared - it is hard to leave an abuser who had power over us. You may want to research Stockholm Syndrome and see if any of that information can help you understand what you might be going through at this time.
The fact though is that no one deserves to be abused. You can make a choice to reject the abuser and fight against it. It might not be easy - but the choice can be made. If you have to, get the law involved. Reach out to other people in your local community - churches, shelters, social support systems - reach out to anyone who will listen and keep doing that until you contact people who can help you out. There are folks IRL who want to help and will do so.
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Jan 03, 2010, 10:07 PM
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How are you doing, lonely and scared?
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#9
Jan 12, 2010, 09:21 PM
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I pretty much invited a beating on myself everytime I let him come back. That's what low self-esteem does to you. Good luck. |
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Jan 13, 2010, 03:57 AM
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i have let a close friend who knows what is going on as he knows what has happened. he is trying to help me but i am still finding it hard to do what he is telling me to do.
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Jan 13, 2010, 10:29 AM
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Have you seen your therapist?
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Jan 13, 2010, 02:31 PM
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at the moment i dont have one so i am dealing with this on my own really with only a little help from my friend as he does not fully understand it all.
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Jan 13, 2010, 04:34 PM
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((((((((((((( lonely and scared )))))))))))))))
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Jan 14, 2010, 03:08 PM
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Quote:
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Jan 15, 2010, 03:08 AM
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how is it important?????
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#16
Jan 15, 2010, 08:48 AM
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Because it says something about your friend and/or you. It outlines what is bothering you and what you are facing, what your choices are.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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