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Apr 08, 2010, 02:32 PM
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My ex texted me yesterday. He has abused me for so long, and I left him about 3 weeks ago. Have not spoken or heard from him during these 3 weeks until yesterday.
The strange this is - it really threw me off the mark. I spent my eve with a friend having nice dinner at a nice restaurant and then came home, was very relaxed and then found his text. Within a fruction of a second it threw me off the mark... I felt so low and dizzy, like something has changed in the world so dramitically. I cannot explain it. I also felt so angry. When I finally fell asleep I dreamt of him and his family, in the dream they were all lying and saying one thing then doing another. I woke up feeling so low I could hardly get out of bed. I just want to forget I have ever met him and move on... I have an important day tomorrow and want to be sparkly and in good form but I feel so awful. I dont know. Someone? |
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#2
Apr 08, 2010, 02:37 PM
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((Tatyana))
 so sorry this happened and I can understand being upset. Can you block him from texting you and calling you. Be strong and keep yourself safe.
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Apr 08, 2010, 02:55 PM
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Thank you Lynn. He does not know where I am so I am safe in that respect.
I cannot block him yet as all my stuff are still in the house. I am still on the lease for the house as well. I just could not stay near him so left. |
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Apr 08, 2010, 10:17 PM
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2009,
Is it possible to get landlord and courts involved (doing a protective order), and get yourself removed from lease obligations? Then maybe have sheriff escort to collect your things. Just a suggestion so you may be able to move on more effectively. MUCH Good Luck  |
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Apr 09, 2010, 05:14 AM
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the strength it took for you to leave is the strength that will keep the abuser away. Be strong and proud of yourself for escaping the situation.
Good luck |
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Apr 09, 2010, 05:44 PM
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Thank you M&M and Pos.
The situation is a bit complicated in that I have to find income first and then find a new house. Only then can I move my stuff from the house. So I am investing most of my time in finding a job. He does not know I am back in the country so I dont want to get any orders at this stage. If this will change - then I might have to. When I will go to pick up stuff - I will take some friends with me so I am not alone. Pos - the strength it took to leave.... my god! I felt like I am picking myself up and gathering all the strength I had left in me and left. I never felt like this before. I am a strong person and it is amazing what abuse can do to you. I am NEVER goind back to that! Thank you for reminding me I should be proud of myself xxx |
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