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Old Oct 26, 2010, 09:55 PM
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You know what sucks, being part of a verbally abusive relationship...that you are strong enough to end...but, have to deal with seeing that person ALL the time...not able to hang out at events cuz you know they will be there...missing out on so much of life cuz u have to hide out. that sucks. I'm gonna miss out on halloween this year
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Old Oct 27, 2010, 03:18 AM
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Have you talked to your T about this Jazzy? Did you end the relationship? Did you draw the line with him and tell him that he cannot cross it?
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Old Oct 27, 2010, 08:31 AM
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somethings are just worth sacrificing to be safe in your own mind, Jazzy... soon you will be so strong that you will laugh at these fears, and he will wilt beneath the heat of your inner sun~ until then,, remember the good you have, peace of mind, freedom to grow, and new friends to make~~~ Gus
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Old Oct 27, 2010, 03:43 PM
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You are strong, as you mentioned and don't let others get to you. Do what you need to feel safe and take care of yourself.
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 12:58 AM
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Have you talked to your T about this Jazzy? Did you end the relationship? Did you draw the line with him and tell him that he cannot cross it?
Yes, she said he doesn't respect me and I should feel comfortable to set any kinds of boundaries that I would like. I haven't set any though. I just told him I need space for now and we'll see how long that lasts...I want to go back to him sometimes, to kinda punish myself for being a bad person, i feel like a bad person...i feel lost and scared, good thing feelings aren't alwyz true. thank you for your post..response!
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so sing. Jazz, sing. --jazzy123456
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 12:59 AM
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somethings are just worth sacrificing to be safe in your own mind, Jazzy... soon you will be so strong that you will laugh at these fears, and he will wilt beneath the heat of your inner sun~ until then,, remember the good you have, peace of mind, freedom to grow, and new friends to make~~~ Gus
Thanks a lot Gus and right back at ya
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--- A bird doesn't sing because it has all the answers, it sings because it has a song.
Maya Angelou.

so sing. Jazz, sing. --jazzy123456
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"You're not here merely to make a living. You are here to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, and with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world. You impoverish yourself if you forget this errand." (Woodrow Wilson)
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 01:00 AM
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You are strong, as you mentioned and don't let others get to you. Do what you need to feel safe and take care of yourself.

THANK YOU! just trying to be strong and walk away from an unhealthy situation...right now, I feel like dirt though. :/
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--- A bird doesn't sing because it has all the answers, it sings because it has a song.
Maya Angelou.

so sing. Jazz, sing. --jazzy123456
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"You're not here merely to make a living. You are here to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, and with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world. You impoverish yourself if you forget this errand." (Woodrow Wilson)
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Old Oct 28, 2010, 02:09 AM
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I want to go back to him sometimes, to kinda punish myself for being a bad person, i feel like a bad person..

i feel lost and scared,

good thing feelings aren't alwyz true.
Why are you feeling like a bad person?

Very good that you realize that feelings aren't always true (but they are what you feel).
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